"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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51 Year old chump

Lloyd.ambert

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How does an old man, with a big social circle, lots of date options, several sex options, fall into the trap of "oneitis"? Easy. He stops living an interesting life, and endeavors to include his lady in every aspect of his life. She absolutely refuses to commit to the old guy in an exclusive relationship. (She's old too, nearly my age) I am pretty darn sure that I am her only romantic partner. *tsk*

How to keep her? Back off of shared experiences, dates, trips, etc and focus on ringing her bell, but good, every chance that I get.

Why do I care? It is against everything taught in the seduction community. Don't know, perhaps some never outgrow being a chump. FWIW, she is a well educated person, independent, has the skin of a twenty year old, is an excellent lover, and has few vices.

Not asking for advice, I already know the answers, just sharing.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Die Hard

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Thanks for sharing, man. Keep your back straight!
 

ThreeStorms

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51 is not old...
Lloyd, do you have any clue why whe won't commit to you? Does she actually believe she still has a lot of options (maybe she does??)
 

speed dawg

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I plan on fully enjoying my life to the fullest when I'm 51. My kids should be out of my hair by then, hopefully I'll have a nice chunk of change stocked away. Start living life again.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Greasy Pig

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Awesome, Rollo! Go Tenderman!
That's the kind of life all men should aspire to as they age.
Great post.
 

Lloyd.ambert

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Viagra4Soul said:
Booya.

Game over. :kick:
Yep. Got a couple of options going on. I can still get interest, fun, hard smelly sex from different women, but just don't wanna. I always thought that using seduction lore as a means to an end, never intended to "stay in the game". *sigh* Oh, well, that ain't too bad. It can be rather fun getting over somebody. Thanks, all, and I'll bookmark your link, Rollo.
 
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