Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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500 Days of Summer... worth watching!

donjuanapprentice01

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I wasn't too keen on seeing this movie, but I got dragged into watching it... let me tell you, I'm glad I did... Hollywood made a blueprint of what NOT to do when you want to get women! I swear, I wanted to SLAP the main character around so bad, he was a huge AFC! He made every wrong move in the book, and he was such a chump.

Just thought I'd mention this, it's not your typical romantic comedy.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What's more interesting is that Summer exhibits many traits of a Cluster B woman - a creature much talked about on this forum. The actress Zooey Deschannel has the perfect look for a Cluster B - the eternal ingenue look.

I think the main character got away with minimum damage. Lucky fella.
 

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Actually just watched it today.

I thought it was interesting, at least more interesting than the typical cookie cutter Hollywood romance.

Obviously, the main character is by no means a role model. He does just about everything wrong.

What I did find interesting about it was the portrayal of the girl. As Jitterbug already mentioned, in a lot of ways she is what to look for if you want to spot a BPD girl. But even aside from that, her emotions are key here - it doesn't matter if something makes sense, it felt right to her, so she did it.

This is how women work, both Cluster B and to a lesser but still large extent, all women.
 
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