"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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500 Days of Summer... worth watching!

donjuanapprentice01

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I wasn't too keen on seeing this movie, but I got dragged into watching it... let me tell you, I'm glad I did... Hollywood made a blueprint of what NOT to do when you want to get women! I swear, I wanted to SLAP the main character around so bad, he was a huge AFC! He made every wrong move in the book, and he was such a chump.

Just thought I'd mention this, it's not your typical romantic comedy.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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What's more interesting is that Summer exhibits many traits of a Cluster B woman - a creature much talked about on this forum. The actress Zooey Deschannel has the perfect look for a Cluster B - the eternal ingenue look.

I think the main character got away with minimum damage. Lucky fella.
 

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Actually just watched it today.

I thought it was interesting, at least more interesting than the typical cookie cutter Hollywood romance.

Obviously, the main character is by no means a role model. He does just about everything wrong.

What I did find interesting about it was the portrayal of the girl. As Jitterbug already mentioned, in a lot of ways she is what to look for if you want to spot a BPD girl. But even aside from that, her emotions are key here - it doesn't matter if something makes sense, it felt right to her, so she did it.

This is how women work, both Cluster B and to a lesser but still large extent, all women.
 
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