"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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500 Days of Summer... worth watching!

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donjuanapprentice01

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I wasn't too keen on seeing this movie, but I got dragged into watching it... let me tell you, I'm glad I did... Hollywood made a blueprint of what NOT to do when you want to get women! I swear, I wanted to SLAP the main character around so bad, he was a huge AFC! He made every wrong move in the book, and he was such a chump.

Just thought I'd mention this, it's not your typical romantic comedy.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What's more interesting is that Summer exhibits many traits of a Cluster B woman - a creature much talked about on this forum. The actress Zooey Deschannel has the perfect look for a Cluster B - the eternal ingenue look.

I think the main character got away with minimum damage. Lucky fella.
 
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Actually just watched it today.

I thought it was interesting, at least more interesting than the typical cookie cutter Hollywood romance.

Obviously, the main character is by no means a role model. He does just about everything wrong.

What I did find interesting about it was the portrayal of the girl. As Jitterbug already mentioned, in a lot of ways she is what to look for if you want to spot a BPD girl. But even aside from that, her emotions are key here - it doesn't matter if something makes sense, it felt right to her, so she did it.

This is how women work, both Cluster B and to a lesser but still large extent, all women.
 
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