"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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500 Days of Summer... worth watching!

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donjuanapprentice01

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I wasn't too keen on seeing this movie, but I got dragged into watching it... let me tell you, I'm glad I did... Hollywood made a blueprint of what NOT to do when you want to get women! I swear, I wanted to SLAP the main character around so bad, he was a huge AFC! He made every wrong move in the book, and he was such a chump.

Just thought I'd mention this, it's not your typical romantic comedy.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What's more interesting is that Summer exhibits many traits of a Cluster B woman - a creature much talked about on this forum. The actress Zooey Deschannel has the perfect look for a Cluster B - the eternal ingenue look.

I think the main character got away with minimum damage. Lucky fella.
 
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Actually just watched it today.

I thought it was interesting, at least more interesting than the typical cookie cutter Hollywood romance.

Obviously, the main character is by no means a role model. He does just about everything wrong.

What I did find interesting about it was the portrayal of the girl. As Jitterbug already mentioned, in a lot of ways she is what to look for if you want to spot a BPD girl. But even aside from that, her emotions are key here - it doesn't matter if something makes sense, it felt right to her, so she did it.

This is how women work, both Cluster B and to a lesser but still large extent, all women.
 
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