"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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5 things women have done to pick me lately

everywomanshero

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I started thinking today aboutthe things women did to try to pick me up last week or so. Maybe you will recognize some of these:

1) Asking for phone number "just so <insert BS reason here>"

2) O are you still going t <X really cool thing> this weekend? I was tellin my gf about it an she said she wants to go.

3) "I remember seeing you from X, that girl was your gf right" This happened in a town I had never been in before. Nice PU line.


4) "I have to go" then coming back 3 different times after starting to walk off and final I have to be one who leaves.

5) "Leave my friend alone" Then proceeded to join my table and practically be impossible to get rid of.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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everywomanshero said:
I started thinking today aboutthe things women did to try to pick me up last week or so. Maybe you will recognize some of these:

1) Asking for phone number "just so <insert BS reason here>"

2) O are you still going t <X really cool thing> this weekend? I was tellin my gf about it an she said she wants to go.

3) "I remember seeing you from X, that girl was your gf right" This happened in a town I had never been in before. Nice PU line.


4) "I have to go" then coming back 3 different times after starting to walk off and final I have to be one who leaves.

5) "Leave my friend alone" Then proceeded to join my table and practically be impossible to get rid of.

Wow I haven't had any of these happen. The closest to this I've had is having girls feel on me or touch me. Never asked for my phone number. Closest to that was I asked the girl for hers and she said seriously call me so I can get your number.

You must be one hot mofo.
 

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#1-4 = yup, never had #5

#1 --> Japanese exchange student... very funny

HER: *hands me note* Here is my number, just in case I don't come to class.. let me know blah
ME: sure

*Next day see her studying*

HER: Hey why didn't u call me ?
ME: *confused*

*2 dates, fvck, short 2 month relationship b4 she went back to Japan*

Clockwork !



-Cod3r
 

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lol anything to avoid being seen as "picking you up"
 

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I just had a really funny thing happen. I am helping my friend run his biz today, and I greet this woman. She is maybe 40 but extremely hot for her age, MILF **** here, and she greats me very, very friendly and within 5 seconds (I swear) she scopes out my crotch bigtime before looking back up.

It was the most blatant crotch check out I have ever seen, anywhere. LOL.

I think the key to getting approached by women, asked out, and checked out if to be in style or rather at least to have a style that projects a really great look, and to seem alive and interesting.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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everywomanshero said:
I just had a really funny thing happen. I am helping my friend run his biz today, and I greet this woman. She is maybe 40 but extremely hot for her age, MILF **** here, and she greats me very, very friendly and within 5 seconds (I swear) she scopes out my crotch bigtime before looking back up.

It was the most blatant crotch check out I have ever seen, anywhere. LOL.

I think the key to getting approached by women, asked out, and checked out if to be in style or rather at least to have a style that projects a really great look, and to seem alive and interesting.
Thats great. LoL.
 
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