"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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5 things women have done to pick me lately

everywomanshero

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I started thinking today aboutthe things women did to try to pick me up last week or so. Maybe you will recognize some of these:

1) Asking for phone number "just so <insert BS reason here>"

2) O are you still going t <X really cool thing> this weekend? I was tellin my gf about it an she said she wants to go.

3) "I remember seeing you from X, that girl was your gf right" This happened in a town I had never been in before. Nice PU line.


4) "I have to go" then coming back 3 different times after starting to walk off and final I have to be one who leaves.

5) "Leave my friend alone" Then proceeded to join my table and practically be impossible to get rid of.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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everywomanshero said:
I started thinking today aboutthe things women did to try to pick me up last week or so. Maybe you will recognize some of these:

1) Asking for phone number "just so <insert BS reason here>"

2) O are you still going t <X really cool thing> this weekend? I was tellin my gf about it an she said she wants to go.

3) "I remember seeing you from X, that girl was your gf right" This happened in a town I had never been in before. Nice PU line.


4) "I have to go" then coming back 3 different times after starting to walk off and final I have to be one who leaves.

5) "Leave my friend alone" Then proceeded to join my table and practically be impossible to get rid of.

Wow I haven't had any of these happen. The closest to this I've had is having girls feel on me or touch me. Never asked for my phone number. Closest to that was I asked the girl for hers and she said seriously call me so I can get your number.

You must be one hot mofo.
 

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#1-4 = yup, never had #5

#1 --> Japanese exchange student... very funny

HER: *hands me note* Here is my number, just in case I don't come to class.. let me know blah
ME: sure

*Next day see her studying*

HER: Hey why didn't u call me ?
ME: *confused*

*2 dates, fvck, short 2 month relationship b4 she went back to Japan*

Clockwork !



-Cod3r
 

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lol anything to avoid being seen as "picking you up"
 

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I just had a really funny thing happen. I am helping my friend run his biz today, and I greet this woman. She is maybe 40 but extremely hot for her age, MILF **** here, and she greats me very, very friendly and within 5 seconds (I swear) she scopes out my crotch bigtime before looking back up.

It was the most blatant crotch check out I have ever seen, anywhere. LOL.

I think the key to getting approached by women, asked out, and checked out if to be in style or rather at least to have a style that projects a really great look, and to seem alive and interesting.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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everywomanshero said:
I just had a really funny thing happen. I am helping my friend run his biz today, and I greet this woman. She is maybe 40 but extremely hot for her age, MILF **** here, and she greats me very, very friendly and within 5 seconds (I swear) she scopes out my crotch bigtime before looking back up.

It was the most blatant crotch check out I have ever seen, anywhere. LOL.

I think the key to getting approached by women, asked out, and checked out if to be in style or rather at least to have a style that projects a really great look, and to seem alive and interesting.
Thats great. LoL.
 
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