"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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5 things women have done to pick me lately

everywomanshero

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I started thinking today aboutthe things women did to try to pick me up last week or so. Maybe you will recognize some of these:

1) Asking for phone number "just so <insert BS reason here>"

2) O are you still going t <X really cool thing> this weekend? I was tellin my gf about it an she said she wants to go.

3) "I remember seeing you from X, that girl was your gf right" This happened in a town I had never been in before. Nice PU line.


4) "I have to go" then coming back 3 different times after starting to walk off and final I have to be one who leaves.

5) "Leave my friend alone" Then proceeded to join my table and practically be impossible to get rid of.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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everywomanshero said:
I started thinking today aboutthe things women did to try to pick me up last week or so. Maybe you will recognize some of these:

1) Asking for phone number "just so <insert BS reason here>"

2) O are you still going t <X really cool thing> this weekend? I was tellin my gf about it an she said she wants to go.

3) "I remember seeing you from X, that girl was your gf right" This happened in a town I had never been in before. Nice PU line.


4) "I have to go" then coming back 3 different times after starting to walk off and final I have to be one who leaves.

5) "Leave my friend alone" Then proceeded to join my table and practically be impossible to get rid of.

Wow I haven't had any of these happen. The closest to this I've had is having girls feel on me or touch me. Never asked for my phone number. Closest to that was I asked the girl for hers and she said seriously call me so I can get your number.

You must be one hot mofo.
 

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#1-4 = yup, never had #5

#1 --> Japanese exchange student... very funny

HER: *hands me note* Here is my number, just in case I don't come to class.. let me know blah
ME: sure

*Next day see her studying*

HER: Hey why didn't u call me ?
ME: *confused*

*2 dates, fvck, short 2 month relationship b4 she went back to Japan*

Clockwork !



-Cod3r
 

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lol anything to avoid being seen as "picking you up"
 

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I just had a really funny thing happen. I am helping my friend run his biz today, and I greet this woman. She is maybe 40 but extremely hot for her age, MILF **** here, and she greats me very, very friendly and within 5 seconds (I swear) she scopes out my crotch bigtime before looking back up.

It was the most blatant crotch check out I have ever seen, anywhere. LOL.

I think the key to getting approached by women, asked out, and checked out if to be in style or rather at least to have a style that projects a really great look, and to seem alive and interesting.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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everywomanshero said:
I just had a really funny thing happen. I am helping my friend run his biz today, and I greet this woman. She is maybe 40 but extremely hot for her age, MILF **** here, and she greats me very, very friendly and within 5 seconds (I swear) she scopes out my crotch bigtime before looking back up.

It was the most blatant crotch check out I have ever seen, anywhere. LOL.

I think the key to getting approached by women, asked out, and checked out if to be in style or rather at least to have a style that projects a really great look, and to seem alive and interesting.
Thats great. LoL.
 
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