Metaphysical
Senior Don Juan
lol. why would you want so many girls? because you want to have plenty to pick from.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
5 reasons why coffee dates kick a$$
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
MisterSinister
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I wouldn't go on 5 dates in one day. It sounds excessive, and I think it would be better to narrow a large amount of women down to a few women that you are more into than the rest (enough to want to hang out with them). Are you meeting these women online by any chance?
I.A.F.Y.B.
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Sh!t, get a 40oz of Ol' English for $2. Take the girl back to your place.... :yes:Metaphysical said:you can't have 5 girls lined up in a day if you go for drinks tho. after 2 you will be drunk as hell as well as spend a fortune on drinks, lol. where as a coffee is 2$ :yes:
clubs down here charge $5 to 10 bucks a drink depending what it is and you can't really hear each other speak
i believe conversation is the greatest tool we have as men
assobsessed
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I think the coffee date can be good but if you're looking to get laid(what guy isn't), it's not the best method to take it to the next level.
These days I totally bypass dinner for the most part and just tell a girl lets meet for drinks. Once you are sitting there downing shots or ****tails with a girl..all you gotta to do is get her back to your place.
These days I totally bypass dinner for the most part and just tell a girl lets meet for drinks. Once you are sitting there downing shots or ****tails with a girl..all you gotta to do is get her back to your place.
I found Coffee dates are good with chicks you already FVCKED with and you already have established high interest from them. Its good for those rainy nights or really chilly nights where you don't want to do much or go out but just go to your nearest coffee place, have a warm cup and then take her back home to fvck her (or even in the car, on a rainy night people are too busy escaping the rain and avoiding getting wet then stop to watch what you do in your car including cops).assobsessed said:I think the coffee date can be good but if you're looking to get laid(what guy isn't), it's not the best method to take it to the next level.
These days I totally bypass dinner for the most part and just tell a girl lets meet for drinks. Once you are sitting there downing shots or ****tails with a girl..all you gotta to do is get her back to your place.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
assobsessed
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I agree with this under those circumstances.DJDamage said:I found Coffee dates are good with chicks you already FVCKED with and you already have established high interest from them. Its good for those rainy nights or really chilly nights where you don't want to do much or go out but just go to your nearest coffee place, have a warm cup and then take her back home to fvck her (or even in the car, on a rainy night people are too busy escaping the rain and avoiding getting wet then stop to watch what you do in your car including cops).
However I think Metaphysical was referring more to 1st dates and in that way, it's probably not the most effective if you are trying to get laid that same day/night.