Metaphysical
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lol. why would you want so many girls? because you want to have plenty to pick from.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
5 reasons why coffee dates kick a$$
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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I wouldn't go on 5 dates in one day. It sounds excessive, and I think it would be better to narrow a large amount of women down to a few women that you are more into than the rest (enough to want to hang out with them). Are you meeting these women online by any chance?
I.A.F.Y.B.
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Sh!t, get a 40oz of Ol' English for $2. Take the girl back to your place.... :yes:Metaphysical said:you can't have 5 girls lined up in a day if you go for drinks tho. after 2 you will be drunk as hell as well as spend a fortune on drinks, lol. where as a coffee is 2$ :yes:
clubs down here charge $5 to 10 bucks a drink depending what it is and you can't really hear each other speak
i believe conversation is the greatest tool we have as men
assobsessed
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I think the coffee date can be good but if you're looking to get laid(what guy isn't), it's not the best method to take it to the next level.
These days I totally bypass dinner for the most part and just tell a girl lets meet for drinks. Once you are sitting there downing shots or ****tails with a girl..all you gotta to do is get her back to your place.
These days I totally bypass dinner for the most part and just tell a girl lets meet for drinks. Once you are sitting there downing shots or ****tails with a girl..all you gotta to do is get her back to your place.
I found Coffee dates are good with chicks you already FVCKED with and you already have established high interest from them. Its good for those rainy nights or really chilly nights where you don't want to do much or go out but just go to your nearest coffee place, have a warm cup and then take her back home to fvck her (or even in the car, on a rainy night people are too busy escaping the rain and avoiding getting wet then stop to watch what you do in your car including cops).assobsessed said:I think the coffee date can be good but if you're looking to get laid(what guy isn't), it's not the best method to take it to the next level.
These days I totally bypass dinner for the most part and just tell a girl lets meet for drinks. Once you are sitting there downing shots or ****tails with a girl..all you gotta to do is get her back to your place.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
assobsessed
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I agree with this under those circumstances.DJDamage said:I found Coffee dates are good with chicks you already FVCKED with and you already have established high interest from them. Its good for those rainy nights or really chilly nights where you don't want to do much or go out but just go to your nearest coffee place, have a warm cup and then take her back home to fvck her (or even in the car, on a rainy night people are too busy escaping the rain and avoiding getting wet then stop to watch what you do in your car including cops).
However I think Metaphysical was referring more to 1st dates and in that way, it's probably not the most effective if you are trying to get laid that same day/night.