Metaphysical
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lol. why would you want so many girls? because you want to have plenty to pick from.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
5 reasons why coffee dates kick a$$
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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I wouldn't go on 5 dates in one day. It sounds excessive, and I think it would be better to narrow a large amount of women down to a few women that you are more into than the rest (enough to want to hang out with them). Are you meeting these women online by any chance?
I.A.F.Y.B.
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Sh!t, get a 40oz of Ol' English for $2. Take the girl back to your place.... :yes:Metaphysical said:you can't have 5 girls lined up in a day if you go for drinks tho. after 2 you will be drunk as hell as well as spend a fortune on drinks, lol. where as a coffee is 2$ :yes:
clubs down here charge $5 to 10 bucks a drink depending what it is and you can't really hear each other speak
i believe conversation is the greatest tool we have as men
assobsessed
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I think the coffee date can be good but if you're looking to get laid(what guy isn't), it's not the best method to take it to the next level.
These days I totally bypass dinner for the most part and just tell a girl lets meet for drinks. Once you are sitting there downing shots or ****tails with a girl..all you gotta to do is get her back to your place.
These days I totally bypass dinner for the most part and just tell a girl lets meet for drinks. Once you are sitting there downing shots or ****tails with a girl..all you gotta to do is get her back to your place.
I found Coffee dates are good with chicks you already FVCKED with and you already have established high interest from them. Its good for those rainy nights or really chilly nights where you don't want to do much or go out but just go to your nearest coffee place, have a warm cup and then take her back home to fvck her (or even in the car, on a rainy night people are too busy escaping the rain and avoiding getting wet then stop to watch what you do in your car including cops).assobsessed said:I think the coffee date can be good but if you're looking to get laid(what guy isn't), it's not the best method to take it to the next level.
These days I totally bypass dinner for the most part and just tell a girl lets meet for drinks. Once you are sitting there downing shots or ****tails with a girl..all you gotta to do is get her back to your place.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
assobsessed
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I agree with this under those circumstances.DJDamage said:I found Coffee dates are good with chicks you already FVCKED with and you already have established high interest from them. Its good for those rainy nights or really chilly nights where you don't want to do much or go out but just go to your nearest coffee place, have a warm cup and then take her back home to fvck her (or even in the car, on a rainy night people are too busy escaping the rain and avoiding getting wet then stop to watch what you do in your car including cops).
However I think Metaphysical was referring more to 1st dates and in that way, it's probably not the most effective if you are trying to get laid that same day/night.