5 days no contact, show i msg her?

[sosousage]

we were on 4 dates, no sex yet (although I escalated a lot).

recently she started replying really slow so to her last message (5 days ago) i didnt reply yet, but it wasnt kind of message that you canntt base further conversation of. an short, two word message.

I assume she speaks with other guys and dates them too. I do so too.

should I reach to her or not? i dont even know what to talk with her about, haha


ps i also have date today with other girl so i could not give a f but im sure she was sex ready on last date

 

[lizardking82]

Interest level dropping alert. Back out, you're nowhere near her top options right now, let alone her best. Some chicks just won't dig you, nothing you can do about it.

 

[Roober]

we were on 4 dates, no sex yet (although I escalated a lot).

recently she started replying really slow so to her last message (5 days ago) i didnt reply yet, but it wasnt kind of message that you canntt base further conversation of. an short, two word message.

I assume she speaks with other guys and dates them too. I do so too.

should I reach to her or not? i dont even know what to talk with her about, haha


ps i also have date today with other girl so i could not give a f but im sure she was sex ready on last date

Good job, just keep pushing. Eventually, it will all fall into place and you will bed women by the 2nd or 3rd date.

Don't overthink her texts AND
Don't worry about her other dudes

That is your insecurity creeping in! Deal with that demon first!

 

[devilkingx2]

If she's not even talking to you anymore and you didn't have sex in 4 dates, there's probably little chance of this working out, on to the next one

 

[user43770]

Whenever I feel like I've already lost them, I'll sometimes send "made you look". If they have any interest left, they'll respond to that.

If she doesn't respond, keep going about your day.

 

[marmel75]

Interest level dropping alert. Back out, you're nowhere near her top options right now, let alone her best. Some chicks just won't dig you, nothing you can do about it.

^^^This...

Likely she either decided at some point she isn't that interested...or expected you to be able to make something happen sexually by now

 

[sosousage]

Interest level dropping alert. Back out, you're nowhere near her top options right now, let alone her best. Some chicks just won't dig you, nothing you can do about it.

i wished her good womans day and small convo created out of it. shes going on holidays now and said ill see her legs when shes back and called me her teddy.

i think its not that bad

 

[user43770]

i wished her good womans day and small convo created out of it. shes going on holidays now and said ill see her legs when shes back and called me her teddy.

i think its not that bad

Is today women's day? I'll have to make a joke out of that...

"Hey, babe, it's women's day. How about you come cook me some bacon and eggs in your panties to celebrate."