"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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44-year-old receptionist and single mother of 4, thinks she's "too hot and young looking" for most men

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The delusion of this one - what does SS have to say? Do you come across women like this in your social life, on apps etc? I do. I wonder whats causing their narcissism and high, inflated opinion of themselves? Is it simps? media?

Maybe its just deliberate RageBait media for clicks.

Its 9 years ago since the story, she'll be 53 today. She looks her age. Nothing above average. She's not even slim (go to 0:04 and you can see looks chunky), she has a chunky upper body and lines on her neck (covered by thick necklace). And she's been made up for the camera (1hr pre-recording in makeup, skin cream etc). No more than a 4/10 to me. Hot women in their mid 40's are incredibly rare, like 1 in 3000. Very few. She's not one of them.

Plus 4 kids alone is gonna be a detriment to most men... even if said woman was a 8/10 Supermodel, affluent and had a Nanny.

 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BaronOfHair

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@Identikit_Radiohead "Do you come across women like this in your social life, on apps etc?"

I regulalry encounter folks who refuse to investigate the veracity of their own beliefs, regarding both themselves and everything else, yeah. This gal is actually a fairly mild example of said phenomena
 

BillyPilgrim

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Lol in Atlanta those women are a dime a dozen. Interesting that both these birds are from London.
 
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I had a coworker in her 40s who was obese, her looks were below-average (which is saying a lot coming from me), she dressed like a lesbian, yet she had a vastly exaggerated sense of her worth

As for what causes this type of ego? Simps/dumpster divers. The coworker I described had an easy time getting laid (which was likely what gave her the exaggerated sense of her worth)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She's like a 3.5 at best and knowing she has kids and dried up ovaries bumps her down to a 2.
3,5 is a tad too much/low LOL

She is like a 5 /6 on a good day..minus 4 kids...still a 2 you were right.

Forget this post! :lol:
 
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