"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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44-year-old receptionist and single mother of 4, thinks she's "too hot and young looking" for most men

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The delusion of this one - what does SS have to say? Do you come across women like this in your social life, on apps etc? I do. I wonder whats causing their narcissism and high, inflated opinion of themselves? Is it simps? media?

Maybe its just deliberate RageBait media for clicks.

Its 9 years ago since the story, she'll be 53 today. She looks her age. Nothing above average. She's not even slim (go to 0:04 and you can see looks chunky), she has a chunky upper body and lines on her neck (covered by thick necklace). And she's been made up for the camera (1hr pre-recording in makeup, skin cream etc). No more than a 4/10 to me. Hot women in their mid 40's are incredibly rare, like 1 in 3000. Very few. She's not one of them.

Plus 4 kids alone is gonna be a detriment to most men... even if said woman was a 8/10 Supermodel, affluent and had a Nanny.

 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BaronOfHair

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@Identikit_Radiohead "Do you come across women like this in your social life, on apps etc?"

I regulalry encounter folks who refuse to investigate the veracity of their own beliefs, regarding both themselves and everything else, yeah. This gal is actually a fairly mild example of said phenomena
 

BillyPilgrim

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Lol in Atlanta those women are a dime a dozen. Interesting that both these birds are from London.
 
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I had a coworker in her 40s who was obese, her looks were below-average (which is saying a lot coming from me), she dressed like a lesbian, yet she had a vastly exaggerated sense of her worth

As for what causes this type of ego? Simps/dumpster divers. The coworker I described had an easy time getting laid (which was likely what gave her the exaggerated sense of her worth)
 
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