"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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44-year-old receptionist and single mother of 4, thinks she's "too hot and young looking" for most men

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The delusion of this one - what does SS have to say? Do you come across women like this in your social life, on apps etc? I do. I wonder whats causing their narcissism and high, inflated opinion of themselves? Is it simps? media?

Maybe its just deliberate RageBait media for clicks.

Its 9 years ago since the story, she'll be 53 today. She looks her age. Nothing above average. She's not even slim (go to 0:04 and you can see looks chunky), she has a chunky upper body and lines on her neck (covered by thick necklace). And she's been made up for the camera (1hr pre-recording in makeup, skin cream etc). No more than a 4/10 to me. Hot women in their mid 40's are incredibly rare, like 1 in 3000. Very few. She's not one of them.

Plus 4 kids alone is gonna be a detriment to most men... even if said woman was a 8/10 Supermodel, affluent and had a Nanny.

 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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@Identikit_Radiohead "Do you come across women like this in your social life, on apps etc?"

I regulalry encounter folks who refuse to investigate the veracity of their own beliefs, regarding both themselves and everything else, yeah. This gal is actually a fairly mild example of said phenomena
 

BillyPilgrim

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Lol in Atlanta those women are a dime a dozen. Interesting that both these birds are from London.
 
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I had a coworker in her 40s who was obese, her looks were below-average (which is saying a lot coming from me), she dressed like a lesbian, yet she had a vastly exaggerated sense of her worth

As for what causes this type of ego? Simps/dumpster divers. The coworker I described had an easy time getting laid (which was likely what gave her the exaggerated sense of her worth)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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She's like a 3.5 at best and knowing she has kids and dried up ovaries bumps her down to a 2.
3,5 is a tad too much/low LOL

She is like a 5 /6 on a good day..minus 4 kids...still a 2 you were right.

Forget this post! :lol:
 
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