HumbleNinja
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VladPatton said:Just make sure she's not a pre-op transexual, man! They're on POF now as well.
Pre-op transexual? A DJ can only HOPE "she" is! #Winning! lmao hahahaha
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
VladPatton said:Just make sure she's not a pre-op transexual, man! They're on POF now as well.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I have no basis for anything. All I know is that you brag to us all the time about your wealth. Therefore I can only imagine that you brag to her as well and treat her to a high end lifestyle. Unless you only brag to us, but actually live in the slums. Somehow I doubt that.cordoncordon said:You have actually no basis in fact to make a statement like that. I'm not sure why you are always so negative? Life is too short to be so angry all of the time.
She is actually the least materialistic person I know. I showed her your comments laying next to me in bed here and she just laughed and said "stuff like that is why I stay off message boards".
FYI I'm not sure if you realize it but we got engaged a few months ago in Vegas. :cheer: :rock: :woo:
I brag about my wealth? I have thousands of posts on this site and a few from 4 years ago or so alluded to something about it in a stock thread. Hardly what I would call bragging about my wealth all of the time.Malice said:I have no basis for anything. All I know is that you brag to us all the time about your wealth. Therefore I can only imagine that you brag to her as well and treat her to a high end lifestyle. Unless you only brag to us, but actually live in the slums. Somehow I doubt that.
I guess we will never know until you go broke will we? I am already almost broke so I have no problems.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You got it!synergy1 said:Got nothing to lose, I am using a variant of this opener and seeing what kind of response it gets. This poster seems to resemble naughtninja?
synergy1 said:The success rate so far using that opener is roughly 10%. Part of what precludes many from responding is likely my distance. Most are a <1 hr due to the lack of people where I live.
Managed to number close a really hot chick who says she gets at least 40 messages per day.
Prognosis. Not too bad. Will keep at it.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
synergy1 said:So far my execution is much like you put on page 1 - I use a variant of your opener, than continue for 3 or 4 messages than tell them to send me their number. Of the few who responded, they gave me their numbers.
Holiday boyfriend shopping seems in. The plan is to date/ spin with a few of them to keep some options.
Will let you know how it works out. The interesting thing is with multiple options I really do not care what happens. Sometimes you just gotta go with the flow.
A follow up from this thread - I have been using the variant of this opener for a few weeks. I can't give you the % of return emails, but its certainly better than before. One of the dates I was on ( as posted about on another thread) went well and was one I used the opener on.HumbleNinja said:Yep. Can't waste time chatting online being pen pals with these chicks. You pretty much call them out A.S.A.P within 4 exchanges or less for a number and a meet. If not let them string some other dude along or waste time playing email ping pong elsewhere.