HumbleNinja
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VladPatton said:Just make sure she's not a pre-op transexual, man! They're on POF now as well.
Pre-op transexual? A DJ can only HOPE "she" is! #Winning! lmao hahahaha
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
VladPatton said:Just make sure she's not a pre-op transexual, man! They're on POF now as well.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I have no basis for anything. All I know is that you brag to us all the time about your wealth. Therefore I can only imagine that you brag to her as well and treat her to a high end lifestyle. Unless you only brag to us, but actually live in the slums. Somehow I doubt that.cordoncordon said:You have actually no basis in fact to make a statement like that. I'm not sure why you are always so negative? Life is too short to be so angry all of the time.
She is actually the least materialistic person I know. I showed her your comments laying next to me in bed here and she just laughed and said "stuff like that is why I stay off message boards".
FYI I'm not sure if you realize it but we got engaged a few months ago in Vegas. :cheer: :rock: :woo:
I brag about my wealth? I have thousands of posts on this site and a few from 4 years ago or so alluded to something about it in a stock thread. Hardly what I would call bragging about my wealth all of the time.Malice said:I have no basis for anything. All I know is that you brag to us all the time about your wealth. Therefore I can only imagine that you brag to her as well and treat her to a high end lifestyle. Unless you only brag to us, but actually live in the slums. Somehow I doubt that.
I guess we will never know until you go broke will we? I am already almost broke so I have no problems.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You got it!synergy1 said:Got nothing to lose, I am using a variant of this opener and seeing what kind of response it gets. This poster seems to resemble naughtninja?
synergy1 said:The success rate so far using that opener is roughly 10%. Part of what precludes many from responding is likely my distance. Most are a <1 hr due to the lack of people where I live.
Managed to number close a really hot chick who says she gets at least 40 messages per day.
Prognosis. Not too bad. Will keep at it.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
synergy1 said:So far my execution is much like you put on page 1 - I use a variant of your opener, than continue for 3 or 4 messages than tell them to send me their number. Of the few who responded, they gave me their numbers.
Holiday boyfriend shopping seems in. The plan is to date/ spin with a few of them to keep some options.
Will let you know how it works out. The interesting thing is with multiple options I really do not care what happens. Sometimes you just gotta go with the flow.
A follow up from this thread - I have been using the variant of this opener for a few weeks. I can't give you the % of return emails, but its certainly better than before. One of the dates I was on ( as posted about on another thread) went well and was one I used the opener on.HumbleNinja said:Yep. Can't waste time chatting online being pen pals with these chicks. You pretty much call them out A.S.A.P within 4 exchanges or less for a number and a meet. If not let them string some other dude along or waste time playing email ping pong elsewhere.