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44 Y.O. Ninja meeting a 24 Y.O HB9 from POF this Saturday? WTF?

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VladPatton said:
Just make sure she's not a pre-op transexual, man! They're on POF now as well.

Pre-op transexual? A DJ can only HOPE "she" is! #Winning! lmao hahahaha
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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You have actually no basis in fact to make a statement like that. I'm not sure why you are always so negative? Life is too short to be so angry all of the time.

She is actually the least materialistic person I know. I showed her your comments laying next to me in bed here and she just laughed and said "stuff like that is why I stay off message boards". :)

FYI I'm not sure if you realize it but we got engaged a few months ago in Vegas. :cheer: :rock: :woo:
I have no basis for anything. All I know is that you brag to us all the time about your wealth. Therefore I can only imagine that you brag to her as well and treat her to a high end lifestyle. Unless you only brag to us, but actually live in the slums. Somehow I doubt that.

I guess we will never know until you go broke will we? I am already almost broke so I have no problems.
 

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Malice said:
I have no basis for anything. All I know is that you brag to us all the time about your wealth. Therefore I can only imagine that you brag to her as well and treat her to a high end lifestyle. Unless you only brag to us, but actually live in the slums. Somehow I doubt that.

I guess we will never know until you go broke will we? I am already almost broke so I have no problems.
I brag about my wealth? I have thousands of posts on this site and a few from 4 years ago or so alluded to something about it in a stock thread. Hardly what I would call bragging about my wealth all of the time.
 

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*Update* We're still on for tomorrow. Chick texts me everyday. Wanted me to skype with her the other night but couldn't be bothered. It's her. Got more pics of her, and she always asks me for a new one. lmao.

Talked with her a few minutes ago. Getting her hair done etc.

Got another 23 yo 7s number the other day. Nice body, actually good conversationalist too. Possibly too far to meet but who knows.

So far the first one is going ok. A few "tests" she tries to run but I call her out and tell her like it is. Relax with that nonsense. If she doesn't like it I'll keep it moving.

Chick is very good looking and her body is BANGIN. Though she knows the deal with me and chick seems like she's pushing to keep seeing me from talking even though we haven't even MET yet. (Though seen many pics and talk a lot).

I told her we are going to take it slow, in reality, and down to earth, not some fantasy land love scenario of the mind. One step at a time.

If nothing works out? I'm back to where I was doing me. lol
 

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Got nothing to lose, I am using a variant of this opener and seeing what kind of response it gets. This poster seems to resemble naughtninja?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Got nothing to lose, I am using a variant of this opener and seeing what kind of response it gets. This poster seems to resemble naughtninja?
You got it!

It's mostly due to how they like your look. Also they'll glance at your profile so try to not make it sound negative in any way.

Go for the number in four emails.

"Give me your number and I'll text you mine in a few."

Don't play email tennis waiting no matter how good she may look in her pics trying to avoid "blowing" it. Fck em. No time to waste. Once you get their number make small talk and tell them to send you a pic of them for your phone.

Get as many as numbers as you can handle and narrow them down and weed out the boring chicks.

Set up meets as soon as you can.
 

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Meet went well. (Chick is almost in stage 5 clinger zone though..)

Chicks body is insane. (Dropped to 7 as she's got bad acne...)

Got home two hours ago.

Been texting me ever since.

Going to her place soon for some insane fun..

Other chick 23 has been texting me too.

Another one wanted me to meet up for drinks but I never answered as I was out with the first one.

Deleted five other chicks numbers I got in the past three days that I haven't been able to keep up with.

Spinning plates is too much work when you've got other sht going on in life. I can only deal with one chick at a time...lol

The end. For now...
 

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The success rate so far using that opener is roughly 10%. Part of what precludes many from responding is likely my distance. Most are a <1 hr due to the lack of people where I live.

Managed to number close a really hot chick who says she gets at least 40 messages per day.

Prognosis. Not too bad. Will keep at it.
 

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The success rate so far using that opener is roughly 10%. Part of what precludes many from responding is likely my distance. Most are a <1 hr due to the lack of people where I live.

Managed to number close a really hot chick who says she gets at least 40 messages per day.

Prognosis. Not too bad. Will keep at it.

I slowed down on emailing chicks. Started not even doing C+P. My phone is starting to look like my mailbox...messages I just delete now. Got a few texts from random numbers I deleted as contacts as I forgot who the hell they were. Another one this morning.

More chicks are most likely going online for the holidays "boyfriend" shopping.

You literally have to have the attitude and not caring if you know the chick is online all the time or going on other dates/ smashing etc.

It's not worth worrying about. You just keep it to yourself and bounce on them when you feel like it and keep it moving.

After a while you'll find yourself getting bored with C+P spamming let alone conversations online and or in text with them.
 

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So far my execution is much like you put on page 1 - I use a variant of your opener, than continue for 3 or 4 messages than tell them to send me their number. Of the few who responded, they gave me their numbers.

Holiday boyfriend shopping seems in. The plan is to date/ spin with a few of them to keep some options.

Will let you know how it works out. The interesting thing is with multiple options I really do not care what happens. Sometimes you just gotta go with the flow.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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synergy1 said:
So far my execution is much like you put on page 1 - I use a variant of your opener, than continue for 3 or 4 messages than tell them to send me their number. Of the few who responded, they gave me their numbers.

Holiday boyfriend shopping seems in. The plan is to date/ spin with a few of them to keep some options.

Will let you know how it works out. The interesting thing is with multiple options I really do not care what happens. Sometimes you just gotta go with the flow.

Yep. Can't waste time chatting online being pen pals with these chicks. You pretty much call them out A.S.A.P within 4 exchanges or less for a number and a meet. If not let them string some other dude along or waste time playing email ping pong elsewhere.
 

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HumbleNinja said:
Yep. Can't waste time chatting online being pen pals with these chicks. You pretty much call them out A.S.A.P within 4 exchanges or less for a number and a meet. If not let them string some other dude along or waste time playing email ping pong elsewhere.
A follow up from this thread - I have been using the variant of this opener for a few weeks. I can't give you the % of return emails, but its certainly better than before. One of the dates I was on ( as posted about on another thread) went well and was one I used the opener on.

Some still don't respond, very few call me out saying that they don't just hand out their numbers...but overall most enjoy it in some way. Even the really hot women will at least check out my profile. Done are the days of using a generic "hey whats up" opener..

If I had to guess, I would say that its 20% response rate. 1 in 5 of attractive women will respond to it..
 
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