44 Y.O. Ninja meeting a 24 Y.O HB9 from POF this Saturday? WTF?

[HumbleNinja]

Yep brosephs.The ninjaman is back at it. Going to meet a 24 yo HB9 from POF this Saturday. (Already got multiple pictures from this chick) It's the same chick. Mos def it's her. (And no I'm not posting her pics on here or online for that matter. No WK. lol)

Actually been talking now to this chick on the phone and text for a bit. Practically going against the grain as I really don't give a damn. And yes she knows my age and doesn't care.

Now no matter what I take everything chicks tell me with a grain of salt just like it is in the business world.

On a side note in two weeks I've literally gotten over 25 numbers and deleted most as it's too much to keep up with all these chicks.

I've got it down to this 24 y.o and another 23 year old chick who appears keen too. No joke. The other chick is pretty damn smoking herself.

We'll see...

 

[VladPatton]

Pics or it didn't happen!!! lol

Sorry, couldn't resist. Keep us posted on how it goes.

 

[HumbleNinja]

Pics or it didn't happen!!! lol

Sorry, couldn't resist. Keep us posted on how it goes.

Dude this chick is pretty fvckin smoking. Body is insane. No joke. Thing is I work with so many hot chicks it's no big thing. lol. I know full well how most chicks talk out of their azz ALL THE TIME. lol.

Chick wanted to see me tonight. Didn't even want to wait. I told her she has to hear no sometimes and LIKE it. Even if it costs me a "lay" I simply do not give a sht. (well except for the chick who used to work at my job. But that's a wrap. hahaha)

 

[VladPatton]

That's the whole discipline, though. Keeping your foot on the brakes at the beginning and pacing it out before you chumpinate yourself and fück things up. I think we all learned that the hard way. It takes hella practice to do it, too, but nothing screams "no options" like blowin up her phone and seeing her every day.

 

[HumbleNinja]

That's the whole discipline, though. Keeping your foot on the brakes at the beginning and pacing it out before you chumpinate yourself and fück things up. I think we all learned that the hard way. It takes hella practice to do it, too, but nothing screams "no options" like blowin up her phone and seeing her every day.

I have literally told chicks on there I've gotten like 25 numbers that I don't remember who they are and just delete them if we aren't talking much. Most will agree to the same chit and keep talking. I think most can sense I don't give a damn even if they look hot or whether they stop talking or not.

I've pretty much always had things to do and places to go so even if I have ZERO plates my attitude is not giving a damn what they do.

I could literally care less if they're banging other dudes and I think they know it.

Odd thing I've noticed is the more hot chicks you talk to on there or have viewed your profile...The more seem to visit. Hit them up with something idiotic or just some quick BS. and most reply. It's the oddest sht. Don't know if POF is changing like OkCupid..as in the more hot chicks or visits likes whatever you get the more other hot chicks look. And there are several pretty damn good looking chicks on there in the tri state area.

My profile might have something to do with it. I get alot of them commenting on it and adding me to favorites and then I'll post some retarded "testimonial" on their profiles and they get off on that sht and start talking and giving me their numbers. lol.

Just too much with work and doing my own crap to keep up with it all. Plus meeting chicks in rea life it's like passing downtime and fckin around online. who knows maybe they can sense I don't care. hahaha

 

[Aristippus]

Having options in the truest sense doesn't necessarily have to mean having women to choose from. It can mean having the option to be or not be with any women. And it can be having the option to spend your time doing the things you enjoy. Once you stop putting too much importance on women, as you're well aware of, then you have the attitude that going out with this attractive woman could be fun, but if she doesn't want to get together, there are 100 other fun, interesting, or relaxing things to do.

I would rather watch a t.v. show or exercise or take a nap or play a game, visit friends, or simply sit around and do nothing, that to waste my time on a woman who isn't interested or who is boring. Women with high interest but with behavioral issues, I have no use for either.

I bet at some point, you probably also realized something else Ninja. Caring too much is a lot of work! It's way too much work and isn't really worth it. It costs you peace of mind, is emotionally draining and tiring. You realize that you have better things to do with your time than to give a d@mn about whether or not this particular woman likes or approves of you. And even if she does, chances are it might start out fun but at some point, even if everything is going great for a while, she will begin to annoy you in some way. Even if not, there are still plenty of good things to enjoy and she is only one of many good things in your life.

Obsessing over one woman is impossible to do when your focus is equally on all of the other good things life has to offer. You realize that while time with her is good, you could just as easily spend your time and energy doing something (or someone) else that is enjoyable.

Originally Posted by VladPatton
That's the whole discipline, though. Keeping your foot on the brakes at the beginning and pacing it out before you chumpinate yourself and fück things up.

Even better is to think, SHE needs to watch her behavior and had better tread carefully or she will f*ck things up, with you. This sounds arrogant. I can only say, it's not arrogant if you have the proper mindset. It's not really something you can fake. To really believe this, you must understand that your time is valuable, that you have other things you would rather be doing if she's not on her best behavior, that even if she is on her best behavior, women are crazy and at some point in the future she will say or do something to try to push your buttons. You WILL have to correct her if she tries to pull any kind of crap. In many cases it's not a matter of IF, but WHEN.

Even if you found Ms. Perfect, she would still be an enjoyable PART of your existence among many other pleasant things going on in your life, or in life in general. Sometimes the most attractive women can be the biggest pains in the arse. If you can stomach it, watch "Gone With The Wind". No worries if you can't. I've only seen a few clips and after seeing that Scarlet O'Hara b*tch, the idea of watching the whole thing made me sick to my stomach.

You might enjoy the Great Gatsby though, with DiCaprio. Look at all of the trouble this guy went through over one broad. Hardly worth it, in my opinion. Sometimes you must use the negatives to de-pedestalize someone. When you're looking at someone or thing through rose-colored glasses, you have to take the glasses off. Then you can see things more clearly.

 

[HumbleNinja]

Having options in the truest sense doesn't necessarily have to mean having women to choose from. It can mean having the option to be or not be with any women. And it can be having the option to spend your time doing the things you enjoy. Once you stop putting too much importance on women, as you're well aware of, then you have the attitude that going out with this attractive woman could be fun, but if she doesn't want to get together, there are 100 other fun, interesting, or relaxing things to do.

I would rather watch a t.v. show or exercise or take a nap or play a game, visit friends, or simply sit around and do nothing, that to waste my time on a woman who isn't interested or who is boring. Women with high interest but with behavioral issues, I have no use for either.

I bet at some point, you probably also realized something else Ninja. Caring too much is a lot of work! It's way too much work and isn't really worth it. It costs you peace of mind, is emotionally draining and tiring. You realize that you have better things to do with your time than to give a d@mn about whether or not this particular woman likes or approves of you. And even if she does, chances are it might start out fun but at some point, even if everything is going great for a while, she will begin to annoy you in some way. Even if not, there are still plenty of good things to enjoy and she is only one of many good things in your life.

Obsessing over one woman is impossible to do when your focus is equally on all of the other good things life has to offer. You realize that while time with her is good, you could just as easily spend your time and energy doing something (or someone) else that is enjoyable.

Originally Posted by VladPatton
That's the whole discipline, though. Keeping your foot on the brakes at the beginning and pacing it out before you chumpinate yourself and fück things up.

Even better is to think, SHE needs to watch her behavior and had better tread carefully or she will f*ck things up, with you. This sounds arrogant. I can only say, it's not arrogant if you have the proper mindset. It's not really something you can fake. To really believe this, you must understand that your time is valuable, that you have other things you would rather be doing if she's not on her best behavior, that even if she is on her best behavior, women are crazy and at some point in the future she will say or do something to try to push your buttons. You WILL have to correct her if she tries to pull any kind of crap. In many cases it's not a matter of IF, but WHEN.

Even if you found Ms. Perfect, she would still be an enjoyable PART of your existence among many other pleasant things going on in your life, or in life in general. Sometimes the most attractive women can be the biggest pains in the arse. If you can stomach it, watch "Gone With The Wind". No worries if you can't. I've only seen a few clips and after seeing that Scarlet O'Hara b*tch, the idea of watching the whole thing made me sick to my stomach.

You might enjoy the Great Gatsby though, with DiCaprio. Look at all of the trouble this guy went through over one broad. Hardly worth it, in my opinion. Sometimes you must use the negatives to de-pedestalize someone. When you're looking at someone or thing through rose-colored glasses, you have to take the glasses off. Then you can see things more clearly.

Yep. It's not even getting older. For some reason most of my life I've never given a crap about chicks. (Meaning whatever they're going to do they're going to do. F it. Let some other clown shoe worry about that nonsense.) Yes many times I have in the past..and one recently a bit but in the end it was never worth it. you get older, work more, and do so much sht on your own you almost would rather just be free and go berserk with friends. In the past two months I've literally done more than most people. Thank god I've got friends who love to take road trips and go different places.

Yeah you need someone in life as you can get lonely at times but it's almost like fck it. The worse chicks get you don't "give up" you simply give up caring about bothering to be something you aren't, some act, tricks, tips and all the other BS. You almost have to be and have the attitude of like the best spy/ agent/ etc. in the world who is completely comfortable having a normal conversation listening to BS or possible BS with no effect. Best way I can explain it. And you can't care what happens. You can only be you.

These chicks could be sending other dudes their n00dz, sexting other dudes, on POF doing God knows what and I pretty much expect it from all chicks even in real life "normal" ones yet I simply don't care. It's not worth it. Red flags pop up, or I sense BS I'm ready to simply bounce with no anger or care. It's the only way to be. No one is going to control someone. Even if they did. They never be happy with a person who is that weak to just do whatever they say. You either mesh or you don't. I'm content if not. These chicks don't determine my life. Period.

You wind up doing so much different stuff I swear I could barely remember half the chicks I texted/ talked to in the past two weeks.

Just got off the phone with this chick and she literally talked almost non stop for two hours!! Chick was begging me to Skype with her even though she's seen several of my pics and I've seen hers. Were going out Saturday and she wanted to see me NOW. I'm like yo. Don't be getting crazy with me! lol. I swear it's almost stage five clinger.

Now she "seems" cool, from a good family etc. but I pick up other ish. I know this chicks way younger and into partying and I told her that. I'll see what happens yet if nothing. Which I told her. We just keep it moving. lol.

Another one texted me just now and I'm too tired to bother. Got several emails from chicks in quick convos. or numbers left..and even if good looking you get to the point where you make them wait in line and if they move on or don't like it. Fk it. I've got my own life to live.

Who knows. It might be holiday fever too...Which is them picking up to find a "boyfriend" for the holidays.

F that noise.

 

[Korrupt]

Proof that girls are f*cking retarded. I get rejected by these girls (my age) CONSTANTLY on these sites. A 25 y/o just tonight said I wasn't her type because I'm 23. Wtf? Not trying to offend Ninja, but the fact that they rather go after a 44 y/o than a 23 y/o is mind-blowingly idiotic.

Once again, no offense, Ninja. Keep doing what you're doing. I'm just saying...

 

[HumbleNinja]

Proof that girls are f*cking retarded. I get rejected by these girls (my age) CONSTANTLY on these sites. A 25 y/o just tonight said I wasn't her type because I'm 23. Wtf? Not trying to offend Ninja, but the fact that they rather go after a 44 y/o than a 23 y/o is mind-blowingly idiotic.

Once again, no offense, Ninja. Keep doing what you're doing. I'm just saying...

Never get frustrated or show any emotion or care. ESPECIALLY with online "dating".

Look at it as simply spamming the best looking chicks in your areas pictures. PERIOD.

I think of it this way. EVEN IF some dude looks like a God on there and is banging chicks left and right. Is he really the "winner"? Not in my book. While he's dealing with nutty chicks, slores with possible std's same chicks going after God knows who else, I'm planning my next vacation, taking a road trip with friends, going to NYC, meeting chicks in real life, working, working out etc. More productive sht than worrying about online poon OR real life poon.

Pvzzy simply does not and never did control me. And it ain't going to make or break me. I've got far too much to do.

Try starting off asking them a question. FIRST MESSAGE right off the bat. Like:

"Have you ever gotten so many numbers and conversations on here that you literally forget what the hell you both talked about? lol. I wind up getting numbers, not talking for a day or so and delete numbers. Then I get texts out of the blue and they get mad that I forgot! lmao. This site is insane! I can't keep up! How's it going for you?"


Then at FOUR back and forth messages TOPS respond to their last response along with telling them:

"Give me your number and I'll text you in a few. (your real name) =)"

Don't waste time. Nor be "scared" no matter how "hot" she looks in her pics. Four message replies TOPS and go for their number. They don't give it. F em. Keep spamming over and over to new chicks with the same routine. No time to waste with BS convos you could have in text on the phone or talking. They don't give up the number they either have no plans to meet and are just fking around or they aren't interested. Who cares? F em!

Copy and paste that and try it. If they like the way you look they'll reply. It's almost like you automatically come at them from the position of abundance and the more you talk to them the more they feel they are "better" than their competition. You just spam the best looking ones in your area and see how it goes.

The weird sht is I've gotten rejected MANY times on there and in real life. MANY. Chicks MY AGE AND OLDER have rejected me more on there than younger chicks! lmao.

I've been told many times DAMN you look young! I swear I think a lot of them think I'm using older pics or whatever. I simply don't care.

Some chicks I blow off if they're too far.

Some younger chicks blow me off.

In some way I almost agree and have talked with them and they agree you get to the point where you have so many numbers and sht you can't keep up and just delete them off your phone if you never talked.

I don't think a lot of chicks are really banging guy after guy constantly in real life. Maybe desperate nut jobs and complete h0es or whales. But it's like getting so many numbers or convos you'd have to make a spreadsheet and do nothing at all but talk to random person after random person, remember all they said and I don't think to many people can keep up with that sht chicks included and they just stop answering or delete numbers.

I've done that a lot recently.


Korrupt forget that chick. Forget a lot of them. Even IF you got loads of numbers conversations and all other BS. You simply would not be able to keep up, remember what they said, you said places to go. times dates etc. where you'll simply just start deleting numbers hot or not.

You might get blown off by many but you might after a while start getting chicks (if your area is packed with people) that are way hotter.

I think it's working my part time dealing with hot chicks who work there and shop there that I simply do not care about even the hottest chick online. I really think they can sense it. Even if they don't I could care less if we ever talked again.

sht I've even forgot people I've talked to and emailed them again and they get pissed! (Especially if they text you out of the blue and you've already deleted them. Drives them berserk! )LMAO.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

I guess they are attracted to you for your money, stability, career?

 

[TheCWord]

I guess they are attracted to you for your money, stability, career? and their daddy issues

Fixed

 

[Purefilth]

Fixed

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: BUURRRNNNN!!!!:crackup:

 

[Zarky]

HB9 from POF

Cool story

 

[SgtSplacker]

Just don't leave her alone with your drink man. Wake up missing a kidney n shiz

 

[Solomon]

. Going to meet a 24 yo HB9 from POF this Saturday. We'll see...

Is that so

and no pics where posted?

Ninja I'm disspaointed

 

[HumbleNinja]

Is that so

and no pics where posted?

Ninja I'm disspaointed

Nah. No pics. Got several of her. Recent and up to the minute just asking. Not posting them up here of any chick as there's too many fvcking weirdos on here and online.

I guess they are attracted to you for your money, stability, career?

No. They have no idea the money I make, job I do, or career. I just get them talking about themselves and can talk about lots of different crap. Places they've all went. I've been several times before. Family sht, everything. Listen. Let them talk their azzes off and follow up with a new question and add a bit of your own experiences.

Makes them feel more important and shows a more genuine interest. Plus the fact they can sense I'm not thirsty. End convos first. And am laid back in a non caring either way sort of way but with slight interest shown.

When you wind up working for major corps and dealing with business BS you take everything with a grain of salt and can't worry about it or you'll drive yourself insane.

Experience new places, things, things in your area, road trips all kinds of different crap so you have a lot to ask them and a lot to talk about.

A lot of chicks really don't do much but they will talk their azzes off regardless.

 

[5string]

I get it. You're having a problem with the age thing. Forget that sh!t!

Be confident and dominant. No holds barred. Bet it will be the best sex you ever had.

 

[HumbleNinja]

I get it. You're having a problem with the age thing. Forget that sh!t!

Be confident and dominant. No holds barred. Bet it will be the best sex you ever had.

Were just going out. She wants me to smash it bad. I'm taking my time. Win or lose. I really don't care..lol. Then again I never know myself as sometimes I can't restrain myself.

Going to NYC. Going out and since I'm down there we'll be doing other sht. I prefer to do sht other than just meet to bang at times. Like new sht I haven't done or done in a while. I really could care less what happens. For some odd reason it seems to attract these chicks even more.

If nothing happens or she flakes gives an excuse? "Ok. Maybe next time." and I keep movin with life. I've already got plans with friends this month for another two state road trip with friends visiting from Italy. Too much to do in little time.

Hey it may go against the "grain" but I'm more concerened with living my life, not pedestalizing pvzzy period and could've cared less about getting reps on here which is why Sage and myself got ourselves banned having a goof several months back. The less serious you take all this nonsense the better.

 

[5string]

NO!

You just go for it. Ask yourself why a chick at her age would want a young buck like you? hmmmmm

Escalate and mount her. Make sure to stay on the full 8 seconds and then ride again till you get bucked off.

 

[JoeMarron]

I guess they are attracted to you for your money, stability, career?

No. They have no idea the money I make, job I do, or career. I just get them talking about themselves and can talk about lots of different crap. Places they've all went. I've been several times before. Family sht, everything. Listen. Let them talk their azzes off and follow up with a new question and add a bit of your own experiences.

Makes them feel more important and shows a more genuine interest. Plus the fact they can sense I'm not thirsty. End convos first. And am laid back in a non caring either way sort of way but with slight interest shown.

When you wind up working for major corps and dealing with business BS you take everything with a grain of salt and can't worry about it or you'll drive yourself insane.

Experience new places, things, things in your area, road trips all kinds of different crap so you have a lot to ask them and a lot to talk about.

A lot of chicks really don't do much but they will talk their azzes off regardless.

JaegerPilot217 I hope you read and reread this post until it becomes a part of your brain. I don't know why people who understand how the game is played has to keep saying this sh!t over and over again. None of the stuff you listed means a damn thing. Your attitude, charisma, mindset, whatever you want to call it is the most important weapon in your arsenal. I guess dudes want to latch on to this other stuff because it's tangible as opposed to attitude. Money, looks, status, all of that is clear, anyone can understand it. Attitude on the other hand isn't so clear cut. Be the carefree, non thirsty, charming dude and you'll have more women genuinely interested in you than the man that you're talking about ever could.