40yo virgins, what's the plan?

[booljibe]

My story is different. Been constantly in relationships from age 15.

Interesting; what do you get from these forums? Wanting to upgrade quality? Quantity?

 

[booljibe]

It makes a difference and is relevant if you’d like to talk about your prospects.

New York

 

[booljibe]

How did you learn to ride a bicycle? How did you earn a college degree? How did you become good at whatever you are good at?
First step is to apply yourself, then keep trying, keep practicing, keep improving, seek the help of others. Don't give up. Celebrate small victories. Eventually you achieve your goal.

How do you think Michael Jordan did it?

With most things you can iterate on the feedback: shot not falling, etc. Trouble I had with game is you mostly don't get useful feedback and have to guess at what to try differently. That was probably the biggest reason I was never consistent; switched my focus to things I could learn in a more straightforward way.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Maybe you get great results with cold approach and get nothing on swipe apps. Maybe it will be the other way around.

it definitely is that way for me