Mike32ct
Master Don Juan
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I took a look. Nope.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Don't forget: "I'm not into games."Espi said:In my experience, her profile seems common for POF. There are ALWAYS a few who write in the tagline about Read my entire profile! NO players! Move on to the next girl if you just wanna get laid!
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
What she is saying is she is not looking to have sex with a "low value guy" or "beta" as y'all like to call it. If a guy gets those panties wet enough she will sleep with him. For everytime I had a chick say they don't phuck on the first date or come to the house then come phuck on the first date I'd be rich. The better looking online you are the easier it is to get laid, can't wait to lose this baby fatzekko said:This is what I think. Some of the sleaziest girls I know use PoF to shop around for more c0cks to ride, and they always put some line in there about how chaste they are, how they don't want to be used for just sex, how they're not looking for one night stands, etc.
Maybe it's for deniability if friends or family see their profiles. But it seems to me that when they put in there what good girls they are, it's code for "I am a raging wh0re, get with me for a cheap lay".
Please conitnue oh wise sage on how to bang this easy puzzy.....Big Nuts said:As a 45 year old, I bang better women in their 40s...they bang easily and are not as bitter sounding...most have come to grips with their SMV being low...so they all bang very easy...and like it.
45-48 women are the easiest to bang on earth....it's a joke....and there are some lookers out there....don't believe the BS that because a woman is 45 she is somehow hideous...it's not true.....there are a lot of garbage 20+ year olds too...not as many of course...
I've seen this so many times. Older women usually are divorced and are at the peak of their sexual drives. They've been there and done that with the relationship thing. Sex to them is more important than a relationship so they focus more on their sexual appeal....and they finally figure out that going to the gym and eating right will make it increase. What do ya know!!Espi said:And what's REALLY weird to me is that a lot of these older women in their 40's-50's have daughters that are fat...it's like a reversal of generations. The moms of today are sometimes hotter than the daughters.
Think you may have been stuck with the few that are looking for a relationship, sorry my manEspi said:If anything, I find that older women are more challenging to fvuck because they KNOW men better...they're MORE experienced...MORE knowlegeable.
Lolwat? Sure she's bangable but there must be some ugly ass 20 year olds in your area if this chick beats out most of them.For being in her 40's she is more attrractive (bangable) than most women in their 20's. Her looks pass for an HB 6. If you guys are telling me you will not bang her, then you are not only lying to the SoSuave forum, but moist importantly, yourself.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I just looked at her second picture and there's a pack of cigarettes on the table in front of her knee...Espi said:she professes to be an "occasional smoker"--which to me means that she's probably a daily smoker.