Mike32ct
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I took a look. Nope.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Don't forget: "I'm not into games."Espi said:In my experience, her profile seems common for POF. There are ALWAYS a few who write in the tagline about Read my entire profile! NO players! Move on to the next girl if you just wanna get laid!
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What she is saying is she is not looking to have sex with a "low value guy" or "beta" as y'all like to call it. If a guy gets those panties wet enough she will sleep with him. For everytime I had a chick say they don't phuck on the first date or come to the house then come phuck on the first date I'd be rich. The better looking online you are the easier it is to get laid, can't wait to lose this baby fatzekko said:This is what I think. Some of the sleaziest girls I know use PoF to shop around for more c0cks to ride, and they always put some line in there about how chaste they are, how they don't want to be used for just sex, how they're not looking for one night stands, etc.
Maybe it's for deniability if friends or family see their profiles. But it seems to me that when they put in there what good girls they are, it's code for "I am a raging wh0re, get with me for a cheap lay".
Please conitnue oh wise sage on how to bang this easy puzzy.....Big Nuts said:As a 45 year old, I bang better women in their 40s...they bang easily and are not as bitter sounding...most have come to grips with their SMV being low...so they all bang very easy...and like it.
45-48 women are the easiest to bang on earth....it's a joke....and there are some lookers out there....don't believe the BS that because a woman is 45 she is somehow hideous...it's not true.....there are a lot of garbage 20+ year olds too...not as many of course...
I've seen this so many times. Older women usually are divorced and are at the peak of their sexual drives. They've been there and done that with the relationship thing. Sex to them is more important than a relationship so they focus more on their sexual appeal....and they finally figure out that going to the gym and eating right will make it increase. What do ya know!!Espi said:And what's REALLY weird to me is that a lot of these older women in their 40's-50's have daughters that are fat...it's like a reversal of generations. The moms of today are sometimes hotter than the daughters.
Think you may have been stuck with the few that are looking for a relationship, sorry my manEspi said:If anything, I find that older women are more challenging to fvuck because they KNOW men better...they're MORE experienced...MORE knowlegeable.
Lolwat? Sure she's bangable but there must be some ugly ass 20 year olds in your area if this chick beats out most of them.For being in her 40's she is more attrractive (bangable) than most women in their 20's. Her looks pass for an HB 6. If you guys are telling me you will not bang her, then you are not only lying to the SoSuave forum, but moist importantly, yourself.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I just looked at her second picture and there's a pack of cigarettes on the table in front of her knee...Espi said:she professes to be an "occasional smoker"--which to me means that she's probably a daily smoker.