4/10 Nerdy Asian girl: "I'd rather be a temporary fleshlight to a 10/10 man than a housekeeper to a 5/10"

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A 5/10 guy is doding a bullet. If you look at this short video, how painful this sounds, then maybe it's better if these women just be upfront then waste a guys time and heart.
I’ve had a few female friends who said the same thing as her about their husbands. They literally find their husband “gross” in a physical way after a certain amount of time, even if he hasn’t physically changed that much. They care about him as a person, but do not want to have sex with him.
 

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I’ve had a few female friends who said the same thing as her about their husbands. They literally find their husband “gross” in a physical way after a certain amount of time, even if he hasn’t physically changed that much. They care about him as a person, but do not want to have sex with him.
That's what happens when you suck in the bedroom. I've always said this is the easiest way to stand out from other men because it's the one thing most men spend no time at improving their abilities in.
 

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That's what happens when you suck in the bedroom. I've always said this is the easiest way to stand out from other men because it's the one thing most men spend no time at improving their abilities in.
Then how did they get married in the first place? If anything that shows that marrying a virgin woman is important since she won't have anyone to "compare" you with which is the point.
 

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I’ve had a few female friends who said the same thing as her about their husbands. They literally find their husband “gross” in a physical way after a certain amount of time, even if he hasn’t physically changed that much. They care about him as a person, but do not want to have sex with him.
They are about him as a person, lol You can simulate that with AI now. That is less than useless in a marriage.

That touches another issue is that people change. That makes marriage dangerous since the person you marry is never the same person you are divorcing. But it also points the question, that she may have settled and that facade could only last so long.

Now suppose your friend's wives were like this 4/10 Asian woman. Do you think that your friends ultimately would have dodged a bullet and have found someone else?
 
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Then how did they get married in the first place? If anything that shows that marrying a virgin woman is important since she won't have anyone to "compare" you with which is the point.
Women marry men for all sorts of different reasons. However, those things become more and more of a problem as time goes on and she can no longer overlook them and focus on other things.

Also some of this happens because many men let themselves go, don't sleep properly, don't eat properly, gain a bunch of weight, get ED and don't take care of their health and have declining T levels on top of that unless they actively work hard to correct those problems.

Never underestimate how much being in shape and working out can do for you. It's nature's viagara, especially if you are in elite shape.
 

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Then how did they get married in the first place? If anything that shows that marrying a virgin woman is important since she won't have anyone to "compare" you with which is the point.
Social circle.

One of the women said “I wasn’t initially attracted to him, but he grew on me.” Obviously that’s a red flag. You don’t want to have to “grow on” a chick because there is no initial attraction. In other words, even if you “can” get out of the friendzone, it might not be a good idea long term.
 

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That's what happens when you suck in the bedroom. I've always said this is the easiest way to stand out from other men because it's the one thing most men spend no time at improving their abilities in.
I don’t disagree.

It’s just not on the radar of “beta” guys. They typically aren’t thinking in terms of banging her into next week.
 

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I agree that sex makes a woman remember you, but I also do not blame the married men who just get tired of the same old p*ssy. Plus when you're focused on bringing the money and other family matters, I don't fault them for being tired and not having to keep their woman from leaving. It's more society's fault for making it easy for women to leave and "get tired." In the past, women had to stick with a man for survival and to avoid shame cause otherwise, she would just die alone. It's not healthy for a man to have to keep the same woman "happy." That's not his job.
 

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I don’t disagree.

It’s just not on the radar of “beta” guys. They typically aren’t thinking in terms of banging her into next week.
If you’re good at sex, you won’t need her to tell you you’re good at it. I’ve never asked a woman to tell me, you will know.
 

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If you’re good at sex, you won’t need her to tell you you’re good at it. I’ve never asked a woman to tell me, you will know.
Oh I tell her openly BEFORE it happens that she is going to experience things that she didn't even know were possible. I essentially give them every chance to tell me that I over promised and under delivered , but usually they tell me that I actually still under promised :lol:

Plus it gets their mind turning as to how is this man so confident sexually which is always a good thing...as long as you deliver on it.
 

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Social circle.

One of the women said “I wasn’t initially attracted to him, but he grew on me.” Obviously that’s a red flag. You don’t want to have to “grow on” a chick because there is no initial attraction. In other words, even if you “can” get out of the friendzone, it might not be a good idea long term.
They waited until marriage or do you think they were intimate before they got married? The video that lady posted is extreme. It doesn't make sense to me that you could be married to someone who is repuslive to you like that. The point you are married is to have at least one person who accepted you as you are and is a cheerleader to you and supportive generally of your life. Obviously there is way more to it than that. But that's the BASEMENT-level to it. The intimacy is part of that and should be icing to an already strong relationship. But to be rejected by your own wife? No, that's unacceptable, that is just wrong on so many levels.
 

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She was more experienced. She took his virginity before the marriage.

She tried giving me dating advice. I let it go in one ear and out the other lol.

They waited until marriage or do you think they were intimate before they got married? The video that lady posted is extreme. It doesn't make sense to me that you could be married to someone who is repuslive to you like that. The point you are married is to have at least one person who accepted you as you are and is a cheerleader to you and supportive generally of your life. Obviously there is way more to it than that. But that's the BASEMENT-level to it. The intimacy is part of that and should be icing to an already strong relationship. But to be rejected by your own wife? No, that's unacceptable, that is just wrong on so many levels.
I think some people actually believe someone can “grow on you.” Emotionally yeah sure. Physically, not really. It’s either there or it’s not.

The video is mostly ragebait with maybe some truth to it, but I don’t think it represents all women.
 

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OP maybe watch this doco
Might help with translating that quote into another context

 

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This is the world you and Gamisch want to live in.

may I ask you , how do you feel about the American victims from mass shootings? Can you be a big boy and anwer that?


You are to simple to understand that I live in a world where guns are strictly prohibited, and thus we dont have more than 368nmass shootings before August. The latter simply doesn't register in your brain. The 0,s and 1,s cant compute that.

So in your simplistic mind you think" ugubughu no guns means they want terrorism ". You cant understand that some people want;

- no terrorism
- and no mass shootings

Some people want peace and love. A prosperous society where kids don't get mass shooting drills at age 12. But hey, I get it. You dont have the mental capacity to comprehend that! :rofl: and because YOU wanna shoot at empty cans to compensate for your small D energy, you move around in this thread acting like a angry teenager. Again, its 2026/27and yet you oblige to laws made almost 300 years ago! And then you wonder why your country is in the predicament it is. Might as well support Sharia law!


15 years for possession..thats how we do!
 
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may I ask you , how do you feel about the American victims from mass shootings? Can you be a big boy and anwer that?


You are to simple to understand that I live in a world where guns are strictly prohibited, and thus we dont have more than 368nmass shootings before August. The latter simply doesn't register in your brain. The 0,s and 1,s cant compute that.

So in your simplistic mind you think" ugubughu no guns means they want terrorism ". You cant understand that some people want;

- no terrorism
- and no mass shootings

Some people want peace and love. A prosperous society where kids don't get mass shooting drills at age 12. But hey, I get it. You dont have the mental capacity to comprehend that! :rofl: and because YOU wanna shoot at empty cans to compensate for your small D energy, you move around in this thread acting like a angry teenager. Again, its 2026/27and yet you oblige to laws made almost 300 years ago! And then you wonder why your country is in the predicament it is. Might as well support Sharia law!


15 years for possession..thats how we do!
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Off to shoot at the gun range with my buds.
 

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Off to shoot at the gun range with my buds.
But yet to much of a coward to answer the question. You're pathetic.

This psychopathic loser needs an acient qoute to justify (?) mass murders.

And ofcourse you dont give a shyte about your fellow people getting their brains blown out. Mr tough guy!


Let's hope your buds dont get a mental break down and commit mass shooting nr 379 this year far!
 

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But yet to much of a coward to answer the question. You're pathetic.

This psychopathic loser needs an acient qoute to justify (?) mass murders.

And ofcourse you dont give a shyte about your fellow people getting their brains blown out. Mr tough guy!


Let's hope your buds dont get a mental break down and commit mass shooting nr 379 this year far!
If Iranians had guns, the IRGC wouldn't have killed 45,000 of them this January.

45,000 > 379

aka

1187 to 1
 

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One of the women said “I wasn’t initially attracted to him, but he grew on me.” Obviously that’s a red flag. You don’t want to have to “grow on” a chick because there is no initial attraction. In other words, even if you “can” get out of the friendzone, it might not be a good idea long term.
I think "growing on someone" is fine for casual relationships and thing like FWB, but I wouldn't recommend it for long term relationship. That said, I'm sure it happens.


Then how did they get married in the first place? If anything that shows that marrying a virgin woman is important since she won't have anyone to "compare" you with which is the point.
Still, if you aren't satisfying her, that can still lead to the same problems. Just because she can't compare you to real experiences doesn't mean she can't compare you with stories from her friends or with her imagination. Virgins are still at a premium though.
 

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If Iranians had guns, the IRGC wouldn't have killed 45,000 of them this January.

45,000 > 379

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1187 to 1
379 is the number of mass shootings not victims you muppet :rofl: :rofl: . The number of victims from mass shootings alone the last 5 years is like 4500, that's already a tenth. Those people all have families ya know...

And thanks for making my point! First world country ,the so-called richest nation on earth by that needs this bs strawman argument and uses the Islamic regime( Sharia law) from all places to make itself look good!

What's next, compare yourself with war torn Congo or Eritrea? Let's compare first world with first world shall we?

Japan has one of the lowest rates of gun crime in the world. In 2014 there were just six gun deaths, compared to 33,599 in the US.

Oops. 33,599 gun deaths in the US IN ONE YEAR? 10x years means way more than the Islamic Republic. You have a bigger change to die by gun in the US than in the Sharia law riddled Iran!!! Those are Iran- esqeu numbers per year aint it?

The most feminine trait( aka b1tchy) is the inability to admit something might've be done better. And thats why 65% of yall dont get p00sy despite overcompensating with guns while you'll never "John Wick" your way out of tyranny one day. Ask mr Pretti how concealed carry will lead to your death!

DJT will simply roll out tanks and striker jets like he posted already in his meme and spray all of you in to pieces. Yall is some SICK ,sick people. And feminine AF, unable to look at comparable places and adopt such better laws.

Stop making a fool out of yourself.
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Just because she can't compare you to real experiences doesn't mean she can't compare you with stories from her friends or with her imagination. Virgins are still at a premium though.
That's not the same thing. It's like me saying, that in the past, I watched softcore porn and used a fleshlight therefore I'm comparing my ex-wife to that when I was intimate with her. You can only compare one human being to another human being or it does not register in your mind if it's something else.
 
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