3rd annual Anti-approach anxiety competition

[Wolfbones]

In that situation - try chatting to the father first,:flowers: and completely ignore the girl, make him comfortable with you and slowly include her - saves on the asskicking.:box:

Basically use him as a pivot.

Its a bit like meeting the gf's parents for the first time.

Let me try to explain my situation. I'm Asian. I live in a European country where racism is still going on. Since I'm not white, fathers will see me as a threat to their daughters simply because of my ethnicity. If I were white, it would be a whole different story. As sad as it sounds, it is the truth and there's nothing I can change about that.

 

[Purefilth]

emphasis on STEP OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE

AND try to build comfort with the father first

if you start to sh1t yourself then eject. NOT EVERYONE IS A RACIST.
NOBODY IS GOING TO KICK YOUR HEAD IN IF YOU ARE BEING FRIENDLY

You need to push against your percieved boundaries if you wish to develop.

There are no walls except for those you have built around you.

I say again - Step up and be a MAN. It is time for you to see what the fvck you got!

 

[Demonpenz]

If you ever lift weights and you crush a workout you feel horrible, but then you rest and feed yourself and you get stronger. The same thing with the game. You go out and get crushed feel like you want to quit...put yourself under some pressure. Then you get stronger.

 

[Uncharted]

OK F it I'm in. Put my name down. I'll make time for this.

 

[Masculinity]

Posting Your Age

Guys, it would be in your best interest to post your age in your profile so that we can all give you age-approrpiate advice. Some things that would work for 17 year olds would not fly with 28 year old...know i'm saying?

-R

 

[Wolfbones]

emphasis on STEP OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE

AND try to build comfort with the father first

if you start to sh1t yourself then eject. NOT EVERYONE IS A RACIST.
NOBODY IS GOING TO KICK YOUR HEAD IN IF YOU ARE BEING FRIENDLY

You need to push against your percieved boundaries if you wish to develop.

There are no walls except for those you have built around you.

I say again - Step up and be a MAN. It is time for you to see what the fvck you got!

I will try my best then. It's the least I could do.

Guys, it would be in your best interest to post your age in your profile so that we can all give you age-approrpiate advice. Some things that would work for 17 year olds would not fly with 28 year old...know i'm saying?

-R

Done.

 

[Gray The Prince]

Guys, it would be in your best interest to post your age in your profile so that we can all give you age-approrpiate advice. Some things that would work for 17 year olds would not fly with 28 year old...know i'm saying?

-R

This. I also highly recommend you put your age in your profile.

 

[thechosenone2190]

i'm in.

correct me if i'm wrong, but there is a new challenge every week? and one challenge say for example might be number closing 2 hb7s within a week? and the challenges get harder each week?

thanks,
newb

 

[JohnChops]

I can't wait for this to start. I need an excuse to get the fvck out of my comfort zone. Two weekends of straight studying = about to go insane. I need some plates.

 

[Algren]

Will probably **** my pants every week, but I'm in.

 

[Mr. Bond]

Great thread, guys. Kinda like DJ Boot Camp version 2.0.

I'll be watching over this one. Good luck gentlemen!

 

[sageproduct]

This'll be interesting; I got a big scar on my lip right now so first impressions won't be the best! I can feel it already

-Me: "Hey how's it going?"

-Her, gawking at my lip: "EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW"

-Me: "Don't worry babe it won't bite too hard"

-Her: "EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW"

And then I proceed to run away in a corner to cry my life away

:crackup:

Lol it's all good man, I happen to have a HUGE zit on my face right now. Five days ago it was literally the size of a jumbo M&M. It's on my left upper cheek, so at that point it actually hurt to wink, and anytime I bent over I could feel the oil welling up in my zit. Finally I went out to buy some salicyclic acid, the zit feels better now but it's still there and about the size of a normal m&m

 

[Nite]

Lol it's all good man, I happen to have a HUGE zit on my face right now.

haha I got an acne breakout 2. But, I'm still excited for this competition.

 

[Wolfbones]

If a guy with a huge crooked nose (me, of course) can do this, you all can. Take my word for it. Guess we'll have to wait for now. Hahaaaaaaa.

 

[Packers2010]

getting in early.

went out on sat night. club was bumpin.

i opened a 2 set and i opened with

hi my names herb (offer hand out and shaker her hand) ... because you are what you smoke.

( i love that line...make me laugh every time i hear it. i LOVE using it cos it makes me self amuse. though i had one girl who didn't get the joke.. witch was a turn off because she sounded pretty du,mb. though if i want a young tight pro. type. i'm gunna have to cut out the drugs stuff)

so anyway. i get talking to them.. then my friend jumps in. and we just chat for like 10-15 mins. witch was epic. becuse most of my sets dont last so long. and I learned I need to get my set out longer. should have used more kino.

just an early intercalation of what is to come!

 

[Masculinity]

Week 1 Challenge

Approach and compliment 12 strangers

-Comment on anything other than body parts or beauty
-At least 8/12 approaches must be females
-Each female must be at least an HB5 (or beyond)Good luck

 

[Wolfbones]

Approach and compliment 12 people.

-Comment on anything other than body parts or beauty
-At least 8/12 approaches must be females
-Each female must be at least an HB5 (or beyond)Good luck

Just to be clear.. these people have to be strangers right? Or at least people you've never talked to?

 

[Purefilth]

^^yup, that would be the idea of cold approaches

 

[Gunner26]

I'm excited for this. I may well get them all this evening, my football team has signed me up for an auctioning event where I am to be bid on by women, and vice versa.

I'll update once all 12 are done.

Gunner

 

[Gray The Prince]

Official list of participants
Neon Owl
coachD
packers2010
parad0x
Nite
Sageproduct
Plutoman
Dali tx o
nroug07
gunner26
JohnChops
Nobodycares1
AAAgent
Wolfbones
Purefilth
Frusciante1234
European-DJ
Twistedi
Thechosenone2190
Algren
Uncharted
TheMusic
R.C

There are 23 of you and only one will be left standing when the dust clears and settles. All of you have a shot to be that last man standing. Good luck men.