“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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if you had feelings for your friend, who was a hot, divorced, 36 year old and you were 30 would go for her? not for temporary but for the long term. only drawback would have to have kids right away. let's assume she'll like you back.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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so you are gonna commit for the long run before you enjoy the short run?

that is cart before the horse, son. if the pony was hot to trot I'd take it for a ride. if I liked the ride I might return for another. I would leave my wagon at home for the time being, though. I wouldn't even be thinking about building a cabin.

HOWEVER, I think in your case you are likely to get dragged behind this horse by the heels. I avoid single women over 30 b/c of this problem. But divorced, over 35, and baby hungry? Yikes! I wouldn't go near it.
 
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DJArlington said:
only drawback would have to have kids right away.
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Is that written on her fridge right at #1 in her "laundry List " ?

THe point is this- before you are even involved with this older woman AT ANY LEVEL ,her requirement that you be a father over and above being her husband seems to be paramount.
It is all about her frame, her requirements , her minimum expectations.
You get to pay for this for the next 18 some odd years.

Go to a topless bar with a bud and do a few shots NOW .
 
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no no finding a husband first is her first priority. the reason i haven't gone for her is that i have common sense. 35+ divorced, who needs that.
 
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no no finding a husband first is her first priority. the reason i haven't gone for her is that i have common sense. 35+ divorced, who needs that.
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So why did you start this thread if you have written her off ?

THis woman probably wants "replacement husband." She just wants to fill a vacancy.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DJArlington said:
if you had feelings for your friend, who was a hot, divorced, 36 year old and you were 30 would go for her? not for temporary but for the long term. only drawback would have to have kids right away. let's assume she'll like you back.
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Go For it.
 
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Today, I socialized with an incredibly hot and sexy ~ 34 year old. Very muscular, excellent fitness level, beautiful face and eyes, and smart. If she was as hot as this girl I speak of, I would be all over her. Then again, I'm 36 myself so I dunno, who are we to judge.

You don't have to have kids. If she's specifically saying that, then of course run unless you want them too.
 
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