36 year old

[DJArlington]

if you had feelings for your friend, who was a hot, divorced, 36 year old and you were 30 would go for her? not for temporary but for the long term. only drawback would have to have kids right away. let's assume she'll like you back.

 

[thedeparted]

so you are gonna commit for the long run before you enjoy the short run?

that is cart before the horse, son. if the pony was hot to trot I'd take it for a ride. if I liked the ride I might return for another. I would leave my wagon at home for the time being, though. I wouldn't even be thinking about building a cabin.

HOWEVER, I think in your case you are likely to get dragged behind this horse by the heels. I avoid single women over 30 b/c of this problem. But divorced, over 35, and baby hungry? Yikes! I wouldn't go near it.

 

[jophil28]

only drawback would have to have kids right away.

Is that written on her fridge right at #1 in her "laundry List " ?

THe point is this- before you are even involved with this older woman AT ANY LEVEL ,her requirement that you be a father over and above being her husband seems to be paramount.
It is all about her frame, her requirements , her minimum expectations.
You get to pay for this for the next 18 some odd years.

Go to a topless bar with a bud and do a few shots NOW .

 

[DJArlington]

no no finding a husband first is her first priority. the reason i haven't gone for her is that i have common sense. 35+ divorced, who needs that.

 

[jophil28]

no no finding a husband first is her first priority. the reason i haven't gone for her is that i have common sense. 35+ divorced, who needs that.

So why did you start this thread if you have written her off ?

THis woman probably wants "replacement husband." She just wants to fill a vacancy.

 

[DoubleA]

if you had feelings for your friend, who was a hot, divorced, 36 year old and you were 30 would go for her? not for temporary but for the long term. only drawback would have to have kids right away. let's assume she'll like you back.

Go For it.

 

[azanon]

Today, I socialized with an incredibly hot and sexy ~ 34 year old. Very muscular, excellent fitness level, beautiful face and eyes, and smart. If she was as hot as this girl I speak of, I would be all over her. Then again, I'm 36 myself so I dunno, who are we to judge.

You don't have to have kids. If she's specifically saying that, then of course run unless you want them too.