"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I dont have alot of self confidence. I think if other women noticed me to be a boost in this department.

I am around 6 feet tall. I weigh 185. I have a little bit of a spare tire. (But no one says they can notice. I actually appear skinny to people.) I work out at home around three days a week lightly. I have a small weight bench but all I do is three sets of bench presses then three sets of tricep pull downs. Then I do what I love..I turn my music up and hit my heavey bag for 10 to 1 minutes. (I took martial arts many years ago).
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I guess what do I need to do to improve my looks and physique with the limited time I have.
 
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Originally posted by stryped
I guess what do I need to do to improve my looks and physique with the limited time I have.
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-Diet
-Lift heavy weights with compound exercises
-Some form of aerobic training.
 
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What "compomd exercises"? Does my bag work count as aerobic training?

Do I need to loose weight?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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First, read the threads stickied at the top of this forum. Then try doing a search for different topics that you think may be related to what it is you want to accomplish. Many people have asked the same question you're asking now - and the answers they've recieved can help you along your way as well.
 
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