"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I dont have alot of self confidence. I think if other women noticed me to be a boost in this department.

I am around 6 feet tall. I weigh 185. I have a little bit of a spare tire. (But no one says they can notice. I actually appear skinny to people.) I work out at home around three days a week lightly. I have a small weight bench but all I do is three sets of bench presses then three sets of tricep pull downs. Then I do what I love..I turn my music up and hit my heavey bag for 10 to 1 minutes. (I took martial arts many years ago).
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I guess what do I need to do to improve my looks and physique with the limited time I have.
 
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Originally posted by stryped
I guess what do I need to do to improve my looks and physique with the limited time I have.
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-Diet
-Lift heavy weights with compound exercises
-Some form of aerobic training.
 
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What "compomd exercises"? Does my bag work count as aerobic training?

Do I need to loose weight?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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First, read the threads stickied at the top of this forum. Then try doing a search for different topics that you think may be related to what it is you want to accomplish. Many people have asked the same question you're asking now - and the answers they've recieved can help you along your way as well.
 
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