30yo lady invites me on a work trip to Indonesia

[RalphaWreck]

It looks like a nice opportunity to stay at a great hotel in a location I'd have never thought of going until asked. We've been on 2 dates. F-closed on date one. Trip is scheduled for the end of the month.

She's nice, a 5/6 and presentable. No long term potential but seems a great gal to visit on a trip. My idea is to meet her there, sightsee while she's at work, and hang out with her at night.

She floated the idea. My response was thank you, I'll consider it and the subject was changed. She mentioned it again by text tonight. I told her I'd check flights and that was it.

What do you guys think. How do I string this thing along for the next month or so. I love the idea of the trip but as I mentioned above there is no long term potential (not even medium term).

 

[btownbuck2012]

If your goal is just getting laid then do it. She probably wants a relationship with you and she'll definitely use sex to get that relationship HOWEVER, don't get attached because if you do it'll lead to resentment from her because you don't really want her and she'll pick up on that over time and be unhappy and it'll kill the relationship. She'll cheat or you will or someone will just blow the relationship up.

Best thing to do is just get laid for as long as you can but don't get upset when she nukes it because she wants something more AND she will nuke it after a period of time because she's clearly in that relationship/husband finding mode and won't put up with your crap for long.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

She's nice, a 5/6 and presentable. No long term potential but seems a great gal to visit on a trip. My idea is to meet her there, sightsee while she's at work, and hang out with her at night.

Thanks for the honesty. And you know what? Do the trip! It'll be a great experience

 

[SmooveMooves]

If it's free, why not?

 

[RalphaWreck]

If it's free, why not?

It's not free. The ticket will cost me $2500.

 

[SmooveMooves]

It's not free. The ticket will cost me $2500.

I wouldn't do it.

 

[sazc]

My take" as long as YOU retain control of your air ticket, and understand that, if things go south, you need to make your own way in indonesia, then do it.

TTYTT from what I know, indonesia is GREAT. Cheap to visit, tons of 'entertainment' for men on the cheap. Just make sure you qualify if they are 'lady boys' first.
Great beaches, cheap food, cheap massages, just a good time.

 

[Fireballs]

I'm currently living in Indonesia, it's a great place you should definitely go .. if it goes south with her there's a plethora of gorgeous feminine Indonesian girls and easy tourists to fall back on over here

 

[Mike32ct]

A big trip like that with someone you've only been on two dates with so far?

I don't know. Probably wouldn't.