That exactly describes a woman i work withThis is a lot of it. A good looking younger guy is going to have a lot better luck with a 45 year recent divorcee who wants to relive her youth and get her freak on after years of a sexless marriage than he is with someone his own age. Neither party is looking for a LTR here, just some fun.
i do think she tends to find guys without good options. She has a particularly needy and jealous boyfriend now but she says she kind of likes it. Even bad attention is good for her and possessiveness is a big change from her ex husband who ignored her and quit wanting to have sex with her
