Epicwinguy
Master Don Juan
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By attractive I mean long hair, hygiene, and makes efforts to look pretty. I think it gets a lot harder to get with attractive women when you're older.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
30+ Guys, when was the last time you were with an attractive woman
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Doctor Europeo
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If you are not getting ***** consistently maybe you should try LTR instead of spinning plates. Preferably pull a girl who both passes the boner test and has a higher sex drive than you.
Epicwinguy
Master Don Juan
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She will cheat
Doctor Europeo
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Oh, you are one of those guys:
- All women cheat
- Virgin girls who are 18 or older dont exist.
- All women lie about their notch count. Scratch that, all women lie in general.
etc
If you are her 1st boyfriend, its highly improbable she will cheat. Same thing if you are at the top of her Desdinova´s High Score List. Most women are just not gonna risk it. If LTR is not for you, that´s cool, but you dont have to be so pessimistic.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Doctor Europeo
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But they dont lie all the time. Something has to be true. What´s the point of a Discussion Forum, or the point of discussing anything if "she could be lying".
I would even say, in a way, women do not lie. Through their words? Sure, Its always a possibility, but one of the 1st things you learn in so Suave is to Ignore what a girl says and pay attention to their actions.
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