Epicwinguy
Master Don Juan
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By attractive I mean long hair, hygiene, and makes efforts to look pretty. I think it gets a lot harder to get with attractive women when you're older.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
30+ Guys, when was the last time you were with an attractive woman
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Doctor Europeo
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If you are not getting ***** consistently maybe you should try LTR instead of spinning plates. Preferably pull a girl who both passes the boner test and has a higher sex drive than you.
Epicwinguy
Master Don Juan
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She will cheat
Doctor Europeo
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Oh, you are one of those guys:
- All women cheat
- Virgin girls who are 18 or older dont exist.
- All women lie about their notch count. Scratch that, all women lie in general.
etc
If you are her 1st boyfriend, its highly improbable she will cheat. Same thing if you are at the top of her Desdinova´s High Score List. Most women are just not gonna risk it. If LTR is not for you, that´s cool, but you dont have to be so pessimistic.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Doctor Europeo
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But they dont lie all the time. Something has to be true. What´s the point of a Discussion Forum, or the point of discussing anything if "she could be lying".
I would even say, in a way, women do not lie. Through their words? Sure, Its always a possibility, but one of the 1st things you learn in so Suave is to Ignore what a girl says and pay attention to their actions.
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