"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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3 women..all think they're my gf

8ball

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They don't know about each other. One is OK for local nights. One is OK for sex. The other is wife material (but she lives a state away).

I'm really torn. I want to pick one. I don't want to hurt the others. What's the play here?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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See the movie Intersection with Richard Gere. He has to pick between his wife (Sharon Stone) and his new girlfriend (Some HB.)
 

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Keep it going until things get too hot with one and you want to devote more time to her.
 

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8ball said:
They don't know about each other. One is OK for local nights. One is OK for sex. The other is wife material (but she lives a state away).

I'm really torn. I want to pick one. I don't want to hurt the others. What's the play here?
ok for local meaning not good enough
ok for sex meaning not good enough
wife material too far away meaning not good enough

Choose option D. Keep looking while still banging.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DonGorgon

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8ball said:
They don't know about each other. One is OK for local nights. One is OK for sex. The other is wife material (but she lives a state away).

I'm really torn. I want to pick one. I don't want to hurt the others. What's the play here?
dont worry dude each of them have at least 3 other guys they are Fing in addition to you...lol:woo: :woo:
 

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most guys in here wish they had this problem hehe :)
 

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To begin with, I want to make some assumptions:

None of them know about eachother.

They all believe that you are "the one" guy ( as that is what most normal girls look for, the one) , especially if they believe they are in a relationship with you.

Also, you must be at a crossroad where you feel like you absolutely need to pick one and its time to stop ****ing around (no pun intended).

So, there must be one that makes you feel absolutely amazing to the point where you forget about the other ones? If not, which one more so than the others?

Go with your gut instinct. If you play this out too long, people will get hurt and you may be left with no one. Be smart. Everyone eventually gets caught so get out while you still can.

I'm pretty sure you can wife up any of them with enough time and work. Some will require less and some will require more. It just depends how much you want to put in.

DO THIS, Talk to all the girls individually:

Try to see if the local one will change to what you want and fix her ways.
Try to convince the sex one that there is more to a relationship than sex, and see if she is williing to work at it.
Try to talk to the wife one and see if she can be more exciting and adventurous.

A guy needs a well-rounded girl who can provide all the qualities he requires. You wont know which one can provide everything you want, but you need to find out which one is willing to change for you and dedicate all her efforts into making you happy. That is the best one. Which one loves you the most? Pick the girl based on HER interest level, not yours.
 
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