"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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3 women..all think they're my gf

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They don't know about each other. One is OK for local nights. One is OK for sex. The other is wife material (but she lives a state away).

I'm really torn. I want to pick one. I don't want to hurt the others. What's the play here?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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See the movie Intersection with Richard Gere. He has to pick between his wife (Sharon Stone) and his new girlfriend (Some HB.)
 

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Keep it going until things get too hot with one and you want to devote more time to her.
 

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8ball said:
They don't know about each other. One is OK for local nights. One is OK for sex. The other is wife material (but she lives a state away).

I'm really torn. I want to pick one. I don't want to hurt the others. What's the play here?
ok for local meaning not good enough
ok for sex meaning not good enough
wife material too far away meaning not good enough

Choose option D. Keep looking while still banging.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DonGorgon

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8ball said:
They don't know about each other. One is OK for local nights. One is OK for sex. The other is wife material (but she lives a state away).

I'm really torn. I want to pick one. I don't want to hurt the others. What's the play here?
dont worry dude each of them have at least 3 other guys they are Fing in addition to you...lol:woo: :woo:
 

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most guys in here wish they had this problem hehe :)
 

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To begin with, I want to make some assumptions:

None of them know about eachother.

They all believe that you are "the one" guy ( as that is what most normal girls look for, the one) , especially if they believe they are in a relationship with you.

Also, you must be at a crossroad where you feel like you absolutely need to pick one and its time to stop ****ing around (no pun intended).

So, there must be one that makes you feel absolutely amazing to the point where you forget about the other ones? If not, which one more so than the others?

Go with your gut instinct. If you play this out too long, people will get hurt and you may be left with no one. Be smart. Everyone eventually gets caught so get out while you still can.

I'm pretty sure you can wife up any of them with enough time and work. Some will require less and some will require more. It just depends how much you want to put in.

DO THIS, Talk to all the girls individually:

Try to see if the local one will change to what you want and fix her ways.
Try to convince the sex one that there is more to a relationship than sex, and see if she is williing to work at it.
Try to talk to the wife one and see if she can be more exciting and adventurous.

A guy needs a well-rounded girl who can provide all the qualities he requires. You wont know which one can provide everything you want, but you need to find out which one is willing to change for you and dedicate all her efforts into making you happy. That is the best one. Which one loves you the most? Pick the girl based on HER interest level, not yours.
 
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