“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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3 weeks and getting engaged

Betterz

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My friend said to me on facebook today that he's getting engaged.
He's been seeing this girl for 3 weeks.

He's 34, she's 31 and they from South Africa (white)

Whats your thoughts on this?
All comments welcome. :rockon:
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

RedScorpion

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Why is he in such a rush to get engaged? It's a horrible idea, especially with the whole honeymoon period (honeymoon as in that emotional high the first three months roughly). Being engaged doesn't help, as its a forced connection now that has to be broken if they want some away time from each other, which is bound to happen with their first argument. And that will build resentment on the fact that they're together so fast. It's different if you know what you're getting into and have that agreement to who they are truly in your head. Which can't be done so soon (everyone presents their best side to who they like, but they will go to normal eventually).

All in all, I don't think it'll turn out well.
 

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Yeah man at the beginning everything's gravy. I don't consider I know a person until we have had at least a couple crazy experiences together and can sit around and be bored together.
 

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One of them must be rich! Either your friend is a player and the girl is super rich. Or the girl is a gold digger and your friend is super rich. What kind of assets he has?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Bayne05

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backseatjuan said:
One of them must be rich! Either your friend is a player and the girl is super rich. Or the girl is a gold digger and your friend is super rich.
^I agree. One of them is up to something and probably used the whole "we not getting any younger" speech to convince their partner. Spontaneous engagements always have a hidden agenda.
 

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Sounds like one of them is some kind of case (BPD/gold digger/etc.) but it doesn't have to be that way either.
 
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