I know I shouldn't really post before reading the bibles. But I had a question on what to do when on a 3 way fone call. My friends see that I don't get that many grls so they usually try to hookme up by them calling a girl then want me to talk to her on the phone. I have a hard time talking on the phone. I usually just choke up or freeze up for second. What should I do. I know I know Read the bible but I have finals and stuff so I can't read the bible right now but when it's over and summer here Da Kid iz goin B DA Pimp
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
3 way phone calls
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
paraguayandj
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The first thing you have to do is read the bible. Read all you can about phone calls. Not only that, you have to read pretty much everything cause the dj bible is probably the best source for any problem you have. If she is trying to hook you up with someone else, she is obviously trying to get rid of her. But look it at the bright side. If she is hooking you up you might get someone better than her. Also if she wants to do the threeway phone sh*t just hang up and call the other girl. I hope that helped
taqueso
Don Juan
Could you just be introduced to them in person instead of over the phone? That seems like it would be much more natural.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
taqueso
Don Juan
Sorry to hijak your thread and I promise not to post in it anymore, but why not start going to parties if that is where the girls are at?
No problem with the hijcack that's why I'm here to improve my confidence and self esteem cause I don't like to go to parties was their alot of people for some reason cause like I'm just scared what people think sometimes but I got to leave the puss ass attitude forever and just live life