I know I shouldn't really post before reading the bibles. But I had a question on what to do when on a 3 way fone call. My friends see that I don't get that many grls so they usually try to hookme up by them calling a girl then want me to talk to her on the phone. I have a hard time talking on the phone. I usually just choke up or freeze up for second. What should I do. I know I know Read the bible but I have finals and stuff so I can't read the bible right now but when it's over and summer here Da Kid iz goin B DA Pimp
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
3 way phone calls
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
paraguayandj
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The first thing you have to do is read the bible. Read all you can about phone calls. Not only that, you have to read pretty much everything cause the dj bible is probably the best source for any problem you have. If she is trying to hook you up with someone else, she is obviously trying to get rid of her. But look it at the bright side. If she is hooking you up you might get someone better than her. Also if she wants to do the threeway phone sh*t just hang up and call the other girl. I hope that helped
taqueso
Don Juan
Could you just be introduced to them in person instead of over the phone? That seems like it would be much more natural.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
taqueso
Don Juan
Sorry to hijak your thread and I promise not to post in it anymore, but why not start going to parties if that is where the girls are at?
No problem with the hijcack that's why I'm here to improve my confidence and self esteem cause I don't like to go to parties was their alot of people for some reason cause like I'm just scared what people think sometimes but I got to leave the puss ass attitude forever and just live life