"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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3 girls are too much.. need advice

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neonlimited

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Okay, so there is this one girl from my work who I've hung out with twice.. she is pretty hot and we hooked up both times we hung out... She deff is hooked to me cause she keeps asking my friends if I want a gf and stuff like that..

2nd Girl - Asked me to homecoming and I said yes because I felt bad for her.. hung out with her a few times and tells me friends to tell me to ask her out... She is constantly bugging me and she is very annoying

and the 3rd girl who I like --

I've known this girl for a while and I have a huge crush on her now after we went clubbing w/ some people one night.. I was dancing w/ her all night and heavily flirting... next day in school (yesterday) we were flirting again.. I REALLY like this girl and wouldn't mind dating her.. today I barely saw her and I talked to her only a little.. tomorrow I am planning on huge kino and major flirting w/ this girls.. (any other tips?)

THE PROBLEM -- I really wanna date girl #3 but if I do.. I can't be hooking up with the other two girls because these fag guys that she talks to also knows that I am hooking up with girl #1... I like girl number 1 too but I just cant be going out with both of them.. Plans also always conflict.. ie - on Saturday both girls wanna hang, I just don't know what to do, can anyone help me?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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GAH! i'm curious...which was the girl that you had over at your house in the last post? "girl coming over tonight need help"
 
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Your simply going to have to choose either to go out with one of the girls....or cancel both dates.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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