"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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3 girls are too much.. need advice

neonlimited

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Okay, so there is this one girl from my work who I've hung out with twice.. she is pretty hot and we hooked up both times we hung out... She deff is hooked to me cause she keeps asking my friends if I want a gf and stuff like that..

2nd Girl - Asked me to homecoming and I said yes because I felt bad for her.. hung out with her a few times and tells me friends to tell me to ask her out... She is constantly bugging me and she is very annoying

and the 3rd girl who I like --

I've known this girl for a while and I have a huge crush on her now after we went clubbing w/ some people one night.. I was dancing w/ her all night and heavily flirting... next day in school (yesterday) we were flirting again.. I REALLY like this girl and wouldn't mind dating her.. today I barely saw her and I talked to her only a little.. tomorrow I am planning on huge kino and major flirting w/ this girls.. (any other tips?)

THE PROBLEM -- I really wanna date girl #3 but if I do.. I can't be hooking up with the other two girls because these fag guys that she talks to also knows that I am hooking up with girl #1... I like girl number 1 too but I just cant be going out with both of them.. Plans also always conflict.. ie - on Saturday both girls wanna hang, I just don't know what to do, can anyone help me?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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SlyD4rK

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GAH! i'm curious...which was the girl that you had over at your house in the last post? "girl coming over tonight need help"
 

DJ4Real

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Your simply going to have to choose either to go out with one of the girls....or cancel both dates.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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