"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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3 girls are too much.. need advice

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neonlimited

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Okay, so there is this one girl from my work who I've hung out with twice.. she is pretty hot and we hooked up both times we hung out... She deff is hooked to me cause she keeps asking my friends if I want a gf and stuff like that..

2nd Girl - Asked me to homecoming and I said yes because I felt bad for her.. hung out with her a few times and tells me friends to tell me to ask her out... She is constantly bugging me and she is very annoying

and the 3rd girl who I like --

I've known this girl for a while and I have a huge crush on her now after we went clubbing w/ some people one night.. I was dancing w/ her all night and heavily flirting... next day in school (yesterday) we were flirting again.. I REALLY like this girl and wouldn't mind dating her.. today I barely saw her and I talked to her only a little.. tomorrow I am planning on huge kino and major flirting w/ this girls.. (any other tips?)

THE PROBLEM -- I really wanna date girl #3 but if I do.. I can't be hooking up with the other two girls because these fag guys that she talks to also knows that I am hooking up with girl #1... I like girl number 1 too but I just cant be going out with both of them.. Plans also always conflict.. ie - on Saturday both girls wanna hang, I just don't know what to do, can anyone help me?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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GAH! i'm curious...which was the girl that you had over at your house in the last post? "girl coming over tonight need help"
 
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Your simply going to have to choose either to go out with one of the girls....or cancel both dates.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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