"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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3 girls are too much.. need advice

neonlimited

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Okay, so there is this one girl from my work who I've hung out with twice.. she is pretty hot and we hooked up both times we hung out... She deff is hooked to me cause she keeps asking my friends if I want a gf and stuff like that..

2nd Girl - Asked me to homecoming and I said yes because I felt bad for her.. hung out with her a few times and tells me friends to tell me to ask her out... She is constantly bugging me and she is very annoying

and the 3rd girl who I like --

I've known this girl for a while and I have a huge crush on her now after we went clubbing w/ some people one night.. I was dancing w/ her all night and heavily flirting... next day in school (yesterday) we were flirting again.. I REALLY like this girl and wouldn't mind dating her.. today I barely saw her and I talked to her only a little.. tomorrow I am planning on huge kino and major flirting w/ this girls.. (any other tips?)

THE PROBLEM -- I really wanna date girl #3 but if I do.. I can't be hooking up with the other two girls because these fag guys that she talks to also knows that I am hooking up with girl #1... I like girl number 1 too but I just cant be going out with both of them.. Plans also always conflict.. ie - on Saturday both girls wanna hang, I just don't know what to do, can anyone help me?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SlyD4rK

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GAH! i'm curious...which was the girl that you had over at your house in the last post? "girl coming over tonight need help"
 

DJ4Real

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Your simply going to have to choose either to go out with one of the girls....or cancel both dates.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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