Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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2x possible threesomes, need advice

md3sign

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Recently both of my current plates have expressed interest in having a threesome, however they both said the other girl would have to be someone they know. Some details:

Plate1: girl has to be someone she's familiar with, but she can't think of any of her friends who would do it, except maybe one possibly.

Plate2: girl has to be someone she's turned on by, not necessarily familiar with but it's strongly preferable. She really wants to do it with her best friend, but her friend has a bf, apparently she thinks "she's always right" and the story I got when we discussed it again was "well I don't want to ask her because I don't want to fight with her again and she probably won't agree".

I would love for both of these things to happen, but I feel I may need to do some persuading/possibly some of my own searching to realize these goals. So for anyone who's had a threesome that wasn't completely random or at least has some useful advice, I'd love to hear your thoughts on how I should proceed and how aggressive I can/should be in realizing this.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ryannath

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Well, I have had one 3some, and the two chicks were best friends since they were 15, and they had no problems with it at all. It was actually their idea. That's my experience with 3somes, and yes they do rock.
 

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ok but did you do anything to help the process along (that is prior to actually getting together)?
 

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No, to be honest, I didn't do anything to speed the progress up. True story. I was on YIM one night and she imed me and then we talked there for maybe an hour and a half, and she said her friend was there that night being her "bed buddy." And, she told me to come over. I said, "to have a 3some with you and your friend right? lol" She said yes, and that was that..lol. There is something that happened that did raise her IL alot though, and I didn't do it on purpose. One night me and her were gonna get together but my battery was dead in my vehicle, and I called her and told her my battery was dead, and couldn't make it. She wasn't sure if I was telling the truth or blowing her off, so that really made her chase me after that.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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