"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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2x possible threesomes, need advice

md3sign

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Recently both of my current plates have expressed interest in having a threesome, however they both said the other girl would have to be someone they know. Some details:

Plate1: girl has to be someone she's familiar with, but she can't think of any of her friends who would do it, except maybe one possibly.

Plate2: girl has to be someone she's turned on by, not necessarily familiar with but it's strongly preferable. She really wants to do it with her best friend, but her friend has a bf, apparently she thinks "she's always right" and the story I got when we discussed it again was "well I don't want to ask her because I don't want to fight with her again and she probably won't agree".

I would love for both of these things to happen, but I feel I may need to do some persuading/possibly some of my own searching to realize these goals. So for anyone who's had a threesome that wasn't completely random or at least has some useful advice, I'd love to hear your thoughts on how I should proceed and how aggressive I can/should be in realizing this.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well, I have had one 3some, and the two chicks were best friends since they were 15, and they had no problems with it at all. It was actually their idea. That's my experience with 3somes, and yes they do rock.
 

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ok but did you do anything to help the process along (that is prior to actually getting together)?
 

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No, to be honest, I didn't do anything to speed the progress up. True story. I was on YIM one night and she imed me and then we talked there for maybe an hour and a half, and she said her friend was there that night being her "bed buddy." And, she told me to come over. I said, "to have a 3some with you and your friend right? lol" She said yes, and that was that..lol. There is something that happened that did raise her IL alot though, and I didn't do it on purpose. One night me and her were gonna get together but my battery was dead in my vehicle, and I called her and told her my battery was dead, and couldn't make it. She wasn't sure if I was telling the truth or blowing her off, so that really made her chase me after that.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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