CalabreseMike
Don Juan
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She wants you as a backup plan. Many women keep two or three men in their lives. They just go about it in different ways than men. Never forget that
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
2nd time gf needs space
- Thread starter niceguytoalphamale
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
logicallefty
Moderator
Aren't they all? Or do they say they are.
R
Ranger
Guest
She could talk about Barbie dolls or playing monopoly. Her words are irrelevant.
R
Ranger
Guest
Oh, there’s truth in that one. LMAO
A bad experience is rape. Regrets sleeping with a turd can be rape.
R
Ranger
Guest
It’s about him learning something about frame.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I'm not talking about no soft passive aggressive sh!t, I'm not talking about having a talk with your "boo" about your relationship, I don't advise him to do that.
I'm talking about him telling her, either your behavior changes or I'm gone.
He's not even suppose to hear her out, he says what he says then he leaves.
R
Ranger
Guest
Name one woman who hasn’t, at least once, slept with another man before dumping the old boyfriend or husband. I believe she has as well.
He needs to confront this and come out the other side realizing he created it in his relationship. You would deny him that. He can’t go through life running and hiding from “the evil girls” like a pvssy.
Exactly, this is his chance to learn how to stand up for himself instead of taking the pvssy way out and passively handling this.
All that will happen is him continuing to fall into this same problem with every girl because he never handled the root problem.
Her chances of cheating went up 100% with that kind of a negative adolescent background…
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
I'm really sorry I didn't mean to cause arguments between everyone here. I just needed advice. Lol. With so many mixed opinions I'm just gonna stop giving a **** about these things if she wants space she can have it. If she has been cheating well.. She can stay out of my life for good. Thanks guys.
R
Ranger
Guest
No worries man. Do what @Spaz recommended. Just meet with her. Let her say blah, blah, blah
Then just say “cool” and get up and walk out.
Listen to every word without emotion. Store it. Then come back and tell us what happened.
Volunteer nothing. Just observe her. Don’t get caught up in any of it. This is the point where you turn your life around.
No worries, we enjoy the debating.
Your going to learn real fast which guys you should actually listen to on this site.
Good luck, handle your business, come back and let us know how everything went.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
I won't be confronting her I just don't give a **** anymore lol she wants space she can have it. Return of the Mack!! Lol
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
And if she dumps me before then. I won't even be giving her the privilege of me agreeing or saying ok I'll just go ghost and she will never hear from me again
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
Good me too lol it's my favorite song to listen to when **** goes down hill
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
So in simple words if she wants to treat me like a ''game' I'm gonna show her how they are fuc**** played lol 
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
I'm happy that you are such high value. You must do good with the ladies. I'm just gonna have to outplay her on this one it feels right lol
R
Ranger
Guest
Lol that’s what he needs to see. The same things every woman does. This one isn’t special.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.