"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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2nd date, nervous, could use your thoughs

Griever114

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First date with an Hb9 last Thursday. Went really well, IL is pretty high. Convo went really well i pushed a lot of kino. She was looking at my profile every day prior.. and over the weekend before the date

Notes-
-Spoke with Robyn, he says IL is high. Im pushing kino hard and will posh K close.
-Anyone have any sexual kino suggestions for pool?
-Other suggestions? 5 other plates dropped so im buiilding those back. Want to keep this one spinning good.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You do NOT do sexual kino when you're out in public on a date. You do it when the two of you are alone after the date.

Have the two of you kissed? If not, you NEED to kiss her at the end of this date. If you have kissed her, then you need to make out with her on this date.

After you've made out with her, the next date should be at your place or hers where you can be ALONE.

Usually I fvck a woman on the 4th date (with some exceptions). It builds up some nice anticipation :)
 

Griever114

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Desdinova said:
You do NOT do sexual kino when you're out in public on a date. You do it when the two of you are alone after the date.

Have the two of you kissed? If not, you NEED to kiss her at the end of this date. If you have kissed her, then you need to make out with her on this date.

After you've made out with her, the next date should be at your place or hers where you can be ALONE.

Usually I fvck a woman on the 4th date (with some exceptions). It builds up some nice anticipation :)
Thanks. This is pretty much what i was thinking. I didnt kiss her before (i botched the opening).

Only problem i see is distance. She lives in westchester and works in the city. Im in brooklyn. She works weekends and lives with folks, i live with folks but moving out hopfuly on 6 minths. Shes moving out asap. How the hell can escalate?
yes im building more plates. I lost 5 straight from ether bs or no connection :/.
 

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Date went REALLY well. i K closed, dopamine RULES!!!

at the very end i get "when will i see you again"

:woo: :woo: :woo: :woo: :woo: :woo: :woo: :woo:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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