"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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2nd date, nervous, could use your thoughs

Griever114

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First date with an Hb9 last Thursday. Went really well, IL is pretty high. Convo went really well i pushed a lot of kino. She was looking at my profile every day prior.. and over the weekend before the date

Notes-
-Spoke with Robyn, he says IL is high. Im pushing kino hard and will posh K close.
-Anyone have any sexual kino suggestions for pool?
-Other suggestions? 5 other plates dropped so im buiilding those back. Want to keep this one spinning good.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Desdinova

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You do NOT do sexual kino when you're out in public on a date. You do it when the two of you are alone after the date.

Have the two of you kissed? If not, you NEED to kiss her at the end of this date. If you have kissed her, then you need to make out with her on this date.

After you've made out with her, the next date should be at your place or hers where you can be ALONE.

Usually I fvck a woman on the 4th date (with some exceptions). It builds up some nice anticipation :)
 

Griever114

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Desdinova said:
You do NOT do sexual kino when you're out in public on a date. You do it when the two of you are alone after the date.

Have the two of you kissed? If not, you NEED to kiss her at the end of this date. If you have kissed her, then you need to make out with her on this date.

After you've made out with her, the next date should be at your place or hers where you can be ALONE.

Usually I fvck a woman on the 4th date (with some exceptions). It builds up some nice anticipation :)
Thanks. This is pretty much what i was thinking. I didnt kiss her before (i botched the opening).

Only problem i see is distance. She lives in westchester and works in the city. Im in brooklyn. She works weekends and lives with folks, i live with folks but moving out hopfuly on 6 minths. Shes moving out asap. How the hell can escalate?
yes im building more plates. I lost 5 straight from ether bs or no connection :/.
 

Griever114

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Date went REALLY well. i K closed, dopamine RULES!!!

at the very end i get "when will i see you again"

:woo: :woo: :woo: :woo: :woo: :woo: :woo: :woo:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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