"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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2nd date, nervous, could use your thoughs

Griever114

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First date with an Hb9 last Thursday. Went really well, IL is pretty high. Convo went really well i pushed a lot of kino. She was looking at my profile every day prior.. and over the weekend before the date

Notes-
-Spoke with Robyn, he says IL is high. Im pushing kino hard and will posh K close.
-Anyone have any sexual kino suggestions for pool?
-Other suggestions? 5 other plates dropped so im buiilding those back. Want to keep this one spinning good.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Desdinova

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You do NOT do sexual kino when you're out in public on a date. You do it when the two of you are alone after the date.

Have the two of you kissed? If not, you NEED to kiss her at the end of this date. If you have kissed her, then you need to make out with her on this date.

After you've made out with her, the next date should be at your place or hers where you can be ALONE.

Usually I fvck a woman on the 4th date (with some exceptions). It builds up some nice anticipation :)
 

Griever114

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Desdinova said:
You do NOT do sexual kino when you're out in public on a date. You do it when the two of you are alone after the date.

Have the two of you kissed? If not, you NEED to kiss her at the end of this date. If you have kissed her, then you need to make out with her on this date.

After you've made out with her, the next date should be at your place or hers where you can be ALONE.

Usually I fvck a woman on the 4th date (with some exceptions). It builds up some nice anticipation :)
Thanks. This is pretty much what i was thinking. I didnt kiss her before (i botched the opening).

Only problem i see is distance. She lives in westchester and works in the city. Im in brooklyn. She works weekends and lives with folks, i live with folks but moving out hopfuly on 6 minths. Shes moving out asap. How the hell can escalate?
yes im building more plates. I lost 5 straight from ether bs or no connection :/.
 

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Date went REALLY well. i K closed, dopamine RULES!!!

at the very end i get "when will i see you again"

:woo: :woo: :woo: :woo: :woo: :woo: :woo: :woo:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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