"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i need abit of help,
i messed up the 1st kiss, didnt read the signs right and chose the wrong moment for the kiss.

now i have another lunch date today

any ideas as to how get it right this time.

i think she might ask me why i wanted to kiss her the last time and dont have a come back line or answer for such a question

any suggestions

Oh she the girl i work with, you can check my previous threads
and please dont tell me i shouldnt go for girls at work :nono: ive heard that before and between the last time and now im single again :rockon:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I told a HB10 how to kiss the first time because i was nervous, didn't put her off apart from the initial "omg...this guys a prick" thought that probably entered her head.
Dont think a small thing like that matters if you played the rest ok.
 
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i dont think im going to try to kiss her this time, if it happens then so be int but maybe i should try to make the mood abit more romantic. Hmmmmm

oh and trickz,
what if she asks me why i tried to kiss her the last time.
you got any good lines there
 
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bluemanson said:
i dont think im going to try to kiss her this time, if it happens then so be int but maybe i should try to make the mood abit more romantic. Hmmmmm

oh and trickz,
what if she asks me why i tried to kiss her the last time.
you got any good lines there
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Why wouldn't you kiss her? An easy way of making a kiss is to use a pull method, something like "come here i need to whisper you something and i dont want the other people hearing"
You can whisper her anything stupid like "i cried during the lion king". Girls get super turned on when you whisper in their ear btw ;)

If she asks you why you kissed her i would say "You liked it didn't you?" but that might not suit your personality. . so you could play it cool and say something like "i was attracted to you and wanted to kiss you" she will love the confidence you have for being able to say it ;)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i like this one "i was attracted to you and wanted to kiss you" she will love the confidence you have for being able to say it

il be using that one and whispering in her ear. sounds good man
Thanks
 
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