"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i need abit of help,
i messed up the 1st kiss, didnt read the signs right and chose the wrong moment for the kiss.

now i have another lunch date today

any ideas as to how get it right this time.

i think she might ask me why i wanted to kiss her the last time and dont have a come back line or answer for such a question

any suggestions

Oh she the girl i work with, you can check my previous threads
and please dont tell me i shouldnt go for girls at work :nono: ive heard that before and between the last time and now im single again :rockon:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I told a HB10 how to kiss the first time because i was nervous, didn't put her off apart from the initial "omg...this guys a prick" thought that probably entered her head.
Dont think a small thing like that matters if you played the rest ok.
 
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i dont think im going to try to kiss her this time, if it happens then so be int but maybe i should try to make the mood abit more romantic. Hmmmmm

oh and trickz,
what if she asks me why i tried to kiss her the last time.
you got any good lines there
 
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bluemanson said:
i dont think im going to try to kiss her this time, if it happens then so be int but maybe i should try to make the mood abit more romantic. Hmmmmm

oh and trickz,
what if she asks me why i tried to kiss her the last time.
you got any good lines there
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Why wouldn't you kiss her? An easy way of making a kiss is to use a pull method, something like "come here i need to whisper you something and i dont want the other people hearing"
You can whisper her anything stupid like "i cried during the lion king". Girls get super turned on when you whisper in their ear btw ;)

If she asks you why you kissed her i would say "You liked it didn't you?" but that might not suit your personality. . so you could play it cool and say something like "i was attracted to you and wanted to kiss you" she will love the confidence you have for being able to say it ;)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i like this one "i was attracted to you and wanted to kiss you" she will love the confidence you have for being able to say it

il be using that one and whispering in her ear. sounds good man
Thanks
 
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