"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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2nd chance

bluemanson

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i need abit of help,
i messed up the 1st kiss, didnt read the signs right and chose the wrong moment for the kiss.

now i have another lunch date today

any ideas as to how get it right this time.

i think she might ask me why i wanted to kiss her the last time and dont have a come back line or answer for such a question

any suggestions

Oh she the girl i work with, you can check my previous threads
and please dont tell me i shouldnt go for girls at work :nono: ive heard that before and between the last time and now im single again :rockon:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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trickz

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I told a HB10 how to kiss the first time because i was nervous, didn't put her off apart from the initial "omg...this guys a prick" thought that probably entered her head.
Dont think a small thing like that matters if you played the rest ok.
 

bluemanson

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i dont think im going to try to kiss her this time, if it happens then so be int but maybe i should try to make the mood abit more romantic. Hmmmmm

oh and trickz,
what if she asks me why i tried to kiss her the last time.
you got any good lines there
 

trickz

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bluemanson said:
i dont think im going to try to kiss her this time, if it happens then so be int but maybe i should try to make the mood abit more romantic. Hmmmmm

oh and trickz,
what if she asks me why i tried to kiss her the last time.
you got any good lines there

Why wouldn't you kiss her? An easy way of making a kiss is to use a pull method, something like "come here i need to whisper you something and i dont want the other people hearing"
You can whisper her anything stupid like "i cried during the lion king". Girls get super turned on when you whisper in their ear btw ;)

If she asks you why you kissed her i would say "You liked it didn't you?" but that might not suit your personality. . so you could play it cool and say something like "i was attracted to you and wanted to kiss you" she will love the confidence you have for being able to say it ;)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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bluemanson

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i like this one "i was attracted to you and wanted to kiss you" she will love the confidence you have for being able to say it

il be using that one and whispering in her ear. sounds good man
Thanks
 
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