"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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28 year old HB9-10, suspected fake tatas.

Borknagar

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Yes, the super hot type.

Recently broke up with her fiance and shoots me a message at 2:15am. I'm passed out.


****!¡!¡!¡!¡

She seems super nice and chill though. Guess her ex cheated on her.

Ok I need some solid pointers here. I was out of the game for 10 years and barely able to work any women at all. I used to have a lot of success before I met my ex wife.

Thing is, 28 is a whole other generation for me. Back when I was single before and was out in the field every weekend and going on dates etc etc this girl would have been in high school at that time so she's around 10+ years younger than the average age of women I'm used to going after. I'm 45 myself.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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BaronOfHair

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Thing is, 28 is a whole other generation for me. Back when I was single before and was out in the field every weekend and going on dates etc etc this girl would have been in high school at that time so she's around 10+ years younger than the average age of women I'm used to going after. I'm 45 myself.
Relax... You could be one of many who are on the front lines of a seismic societal shift https://www.npr.org/sections/health...r-forty-its-now-a-lot-more-common-study-finds

Now that it takes men longer to get financially sturdy than was the case in prior centuries, and more women are recognizing that they really aren't designed for careers in the classical sense https://x.com/ambercfischer/status/1717204905784664178 older guys and young women pairing up is going to become more frequent
 

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Exercise a little care. From what you say she is higher SMV than you (you don’t seem comfortable around women her level. No hate I’m probably the same)

she is on rebound

she probably has a lot of suitors

she text at 2.15am. Drink/drugs or what? Who’s texting at this hour?

fake tata. Could be a red flag. She’s paid a lot of money and had an operation to attract men more efficiently.
I’m just saying this may have trouble written on it. Have fun but don’t get too involved as she may eat your soul.

Sourve, been there, and this is how I found here.
Most of the time the guy she is with at the time has paid for those
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ludovic991

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Yes, the super hot type.

Recently broke up with her fiance and shoots me a message at 2:15am. I'm passed out.


****!¡!¡!¡!¡

She seems super nice and chill though. Guess her ex cheated on her.

Ok I need some solid pointers here. I was out of the game for 10 years and barely able to work any women at all. I used to have a lot of success before I met my ex wife.

Thing is, 28 is a whole other generation for me. Back when I was single before and was out in the field every weekend and going on dates etc etc this girl would have been in high school at that time so she's around 10+ years younger than the average age of women I'm used to going after. I'm 45 myself.

Whoa, 2:15 am message from a super hot type? Take a deep breath, don't get too excited!

Just be yourself, show genuine interest, and keep it light and casual for now. Don't try to impress her with your past or give advice on her recent breakup. Focus on building a connection and respect her boundaries.

And hey, it's okay to make mistakes - you've been out of the game for 10 years! Just have fun and learn as you go. Good luck!
 

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2:15 am text usually means after the bars/clubs she is looking to get her cheeks clapped in, this is why it's good to have your phone ringer on for situations like these just in case
 
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